Who's been in a gay/bisexual orgy before?

How do they generally start? Do you have a regular group of buddies/gals you get together with? And if so, do you top, bottom, or are you versatile? Do you get gangbanged, or just kind of leave the crowd for a little intimacy with one person. Do you feel belittled when a small group of people gang up and use you as a rag doll, or do you like to pick the "softest" of the bunch and gang up on them...

Just curious to know how many of you come across situations like that, how often, what happens during the ordeal, the general outcome (besides everyone getting off), and how do parties like that end.

 

i havnt, but i want to, and id try a lil of all, get dominated by 2 guys or w/e, then a lil alone time with soe one, but eather way, im the submissive one prefurably

 

I've participated in a few. I met a really attractive fortysomething couple at a bar in New Orleans once when I was about 25 and we ended up talking about how we were all bisexual. They said they had monthly sex parties at their beach house in Waveland, Mississippi. They asked if I would be interested, so I said sure and gave them my phone number. I thought they were full of it at first, but sure enough, they called me up the next week and asked me to come to their house for a party the following Saturday afternoon. When I got there, a thirtyish looking woman answered the door in a beach robe. She told me everyone was in the back yard by the pool but that I had to undress before I went out. She took off her robe and was naked, so I undressed too. We went out back and there were about 10 men and 15 or so women there. They ranged in age from about 20 to 50, with 30 being about the average. At first everyone was just hanging out, eating, drinking, and swimming. It didn't seem that unusual to me since I had been going to the nude beach on Ship Island since I was a teenager. After awhile, people started pairing up and nonchalantly started engaging in various forms of foreplay. By the time it got dark, everyone was totally into it. It was a really good experience for me and there were no inhibitions. I think I had sex with almost everyone there at some point. Everyone seemed bisexual to me, because everyone was having sex with everyone else. It was great! I went back a couple of more times over the next few months, but I ended up getting involved with someone, so I stopped going. I kept in touch with them for awhile, but eventually I lost touch. The last time I drove by where their house was, it wasn't there anymore. Hurricane Katrina really slammed Waveland.

 

I'm bi, and my parties are not exclusive to men. Generally we throw a party drinks flowing, games, then after a while of drinking and partying interested friends break away. We turn up the music and turn on the black lights. Light a hookah and pull out the sex dice. They are always a good ice breaker. Then we take it from there. I have had a few a 5 ppl and as many as 10. Most everyone I know is Bi-sexual or Bi-curious. We do have a general set of established relationships but for the most part its a free for all. I know my female friends in particular enjoy watch m4m action. And I have been known to get a few straight guys in on it.. )

 

I find they are like any other party. You got music going.. drinks flowing.. flirting happening.. and bam it all starts with a kiss and some touching.. you feel the needs you want and go from there..

 

i'm very open to about anything

 

im probably one of those people that wont die until they've tried everything

 

The ones I have been to are just a group of guys who know each other or some of the others. The tops usually top..the bottoms bottom ect. Its pretty intense to have sex with several different people in a session.

 

I have tried a few over the years, and figured out that I was better off at one of the SOMA sex clubs.

Once a scene starts developing other dudes join in and more guys start running their own side shows. At times, such improptu encounters suddenly end, once the core couple did their deed, and at other times, the focus of the group moves to one of the previously mentioned 'side events'.

I am reasonably selective, and do not like the 'anyting with anyone goes rule', which seems to be the prevailing etiquette at most of the privately organized parties.

Frankly, I also enjoy the relative anonymity of such open events. People do not know you; they also do not know anyone like the host of the party, and thus have no point of reference. If you reject them, that's fine. You are just another stranger. No complaints, no bitchin'...

KD

 

I've NEVER had an orgy before, only a FFM 3SOME
However... One of my ULTIMATE FANTASIES would be to have a GAY orgy, where me and another BOTTOM would take on like 5 or 6 TOP guys

 

I'm vers but had 2 fuck me 1 after the other

 

A guy I know in town hosts bate parties about every 6 weeks or so. It involves different guys showing basically get naked and stroke together and each other. Sometimes a little oral gets thrown in. No anal. Good times!

 

A gay man in a nearby town used to host a monthly men only party at his house. Usually a dozen or more men attended. At 8 o'clock the door was locked, the lights and clothes came off. Several regulars would pair off to other rooms, leaving the newcomers to get to know each other.

After about an hour, everyone gathered back in the main room, still naked, for refreshments and conversation. Some men would pair off with different partners while some stayed in the main room, lights on. Often several men were sucking and fucking while others watched.

They were not anything goes parties, everything was consensual. However, everyone knew why they were there, so a request to suck a cock or fuck an ass was seldom denied.

Around 11 most men had cum two or three times and got dressed. Some of us retired to Denny's for a late night breakfast, looking forward to the next party.

I attended several parties before the host moved to a different state. I liked sucking cocks and topping and never did develop a regular relationship with any of the other men. So I was the unofficial greater to newbies to make them feel welcome and comfortable. I sure miss those parties.

Years later I discovered a men's cum club that met weekly at an apartment. Conditions and people were with similar, except a few men brought women to watch them perform with other men. Even naked, the women weren't very attractive to me, especially with all the lovely cocks to suck and asses to fuck.

I only attended a few of those parties until the invitations just stopped. I later learned the lease on the apartment ran out and the landlord would not renew it.

I have tried hosting parties at my apartment but have never been able to get men to commit to attending. After a few no show dates, I gave up on the idea.

 

not sure what the definition of a gay orgy is but have been in groups of up to 8 guys and had bukkake with 5.

all were hot....more cocks (im a sub) then better.
.simon

 

I suppose by definition I have. Two bisexual (M/F) couples enjoying a foursome qualifies in my book and my wife and I have a regular couple we have sex with and there are no boundaries with partners. We all have sex with each other as nobody leaves unsatisfied.