Are you single?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by redyelruc, May 19, 2009.

  1. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    I wouldn't go that far. You're a bit of an asshole yourself. :rolleyes: :D ;)
     
  2. LauraMay

    LauraMay Rainbow Humper

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  3. mutteredexpletives

    mutteredexpletives Banned

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    meh... I'm "on a break" right now.

    That's what we're calling it.

    I'm both... :):(
     
  4. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    Well I'm an outsider. I still think that most other aussies are among the most down to earth and friendly people you'll ever meet. I'm just an asshole who belongs to his own country.
     
  5. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i'm single and i'm not the relationship kind

    i think the last time i was in a relationship was last year

    i would not consider that a real relationship although we stayed together for a really long time
    i basically entered into it thinking that maybe it'd be good for me to be normal and in a relationship like a normal person
    however that really blew up in my face

    it seems to me that every guy just wants me as their fire hydrant to piss on

    i will never settle for anything but the best
    so it seems i might be looking for a while
     
  6. LauraMay

    LauraMay Rainbow Humper

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    Australians are some of the racist people I've ever met!! :eek:

    There was barely any of that shit in New Zealand.

    When people are cruel to immigrants it offends me because I Am An Immigrant :mad:

    Just because I'm white, and so weak I've lost most of my accent, doesn't mean anything.
     
  7. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    i`m not exactly single and not exactly into a relationship. the last very serious relationship i had ended 3 months ago.
     
  8. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Now that I look back on it I've never considered myself to be taken, but I have been temporarily unavailable :D
     
  9. nakedtreehugger

    nakedtreehugger craaaaaazy

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    i'm single. while i haven't been in a relationship that was defined as monogamous in my mind for over 6 years, i was in a relationship for a couple years that ended in december. while i was in that relationship, thought it was defined as open, i did not feel single or in any way non-monogamous. so it's a relatively new thing for me of late.

    truthfully, i'm struggling with it. i don't want to be single. i want to be in a relationship. i want a girlfriend. yet i know what i want, and what i want is a level of depth and intimacy that when i'm honest with myself, i realize i'm not quite ready for. so i seem to be needing to be single. alone.

    fuck the stigma of singledom. i'm actually quite happy that i am able to do what i want and don't have to consider another person's feelings in my decisions. too bad it seems to go hand in hand with loneliness and not getting laid. :(
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    You must live in a different Australia then, too many bogans in this one
     
  11. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    Not single... until this last winter I had been single for 20 years. It took a good long time for me to learn that the best way to find a good match is to not be looking.
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    haha, which is it? if it was 02, that would be seven years, but you keep throwing 03s in there too... :rolleyes:
     
  13. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    That is damn true. I only meet people when I'm not expecting anything at all. Of course, I'm not interested in an actual relationship yet so meeting them or not, I'm still single. :D
     
  14. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    Gee whiz. This gives me some hope. :eek:

    I'm not bothered about being single. Too much like hard work (relationships). [​IMG]
     
  15. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    that's very true. when i looked for a boyfriend, although i found one, he just wasn't right for me and it didn't last. then i found someone in the most unlikely way when i wasn't expecting anything. we were friends and then we just fell in love. been together ever since. 3 years now.
     
  16. Moon_Unit

    Moon_Unit Member

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    yeh and never

    it fuckin sucks
     
  17. 90 paces west

    90 paces west Member

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    My first and last relationship ended 5 months ago...

    Probably should have ended wayyy sooner then that.
     
  18. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    :confused:
     
  19. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    Single, never had a serious relationship. I'm just waiting to have something meaningful with someone special.
     
  20. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    That's because you saw each other as you are, not as your imagined ideal that the opposite sex is looking for... which is little more than an inaccurate form of self promotion... and transparent- even insulting- to anyone who is even marginally perceptive.

    "Accidental" couplings have a better chance when neither party has to cover up any lies or try and live up to an act. The dating scene is often the mother of all bait and switch schemes. Even with the best of intentions people will inadvertently pass themselves off as something they're not and set up any potential partners for disappointment.
     

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