well.. ive had sex twice. one time with an experienced girl(she was on top) and the other with a girl whos vagina was so tight it hurt to insert my wang into her (missionary). both times i was like.. so this is a vagina.. totally unimpressed. they both blew me to. that wasnt so great either. even though this kid who was also blown by the tight girl said it was the best BJ hed ever had. i have yet to meet a girl who can make me cum.
It happens. One of my best friends had that problem and it wasn't until he was in a commited relationship that he actually got pleasure from sex. Not because of the idea of love really, but because he was more comfortable with the girl and could relax. Don't know if that'd work for you but it certainly did for him.
so tight it hurt your wang to put it in? you lucky bastard. but yeah, i agree with agent. it happens. you'll have good sex eventually.