All of my close friends and family know I am bisexual. It is not an issue with them. Especially since I am in a weird cirumstance where I am married. (My sister says I cannot be bisexual because I am married which is of course bullshit. I have been with women and I do fantasize about it however I also like fucking my husband....okay enough there) the real thing (to get to the point) i have a friend of mine who will be moving in with husband and i. we need a roommate to help make ends meet and i am helping her out. She used to be an ubber christian but is not anymore. I have not come out to her yet and I don't have a problem with it but her boyfriend is really ubber christian and he might. Now this does not bother me in the least what people think of me or not. I am who I am and there is nothing that can change that and I want to tell her but I do not want her to be in an awkward position where she has to come to my defense everytime her boyfriend is around. Should I tell her especially if she is living with me?
If she's your friend she won't judge you. If she does judge you isn't it better to find that out now and not later?
i told her. she was okay with it. she was not freaked out and asked how it worked with me being married. i simply said "a lady never kisses and tells." she laughed. she says that you are who you are and my sexuality does not change how she feels about me as a person. she says i am a great and nice individual who cares about others and she is happy that i told her. apparently she told me she does not have any real religious values now and even if she did that still would not change her opinion of me. friends are really supportive more so than family. ^_^
