So I'm a senior in high school, graduating in less than a month, and up until 2 weeks ago I was dating a girl whom i thought I loved for 15 months. She wouldn't let me me smoke weed, which i love doing, so i would do it behind her back and lie my way out of things and when she would catch me she would get angry but always forgive me. Then we started getting into a lot of fights over dumb things and she would always be the biggest bitch to me and I wanted to smoke and not have to worry so we broke up. A week later, I met this girl that my good friend introduced me to. Her and my friend used to like talk dirty to each other and send each other pictures and stuff like that. So anyway this girl started to like me a lot and she was pretty chill so we started dating and then somehow the talk of a 3some between me her and the friend that introduced us came up and she said she would and i said i would. I thought it would be awesome but now that it has happened I feel extremely guilty. I'm not sure if i have feelings for her or for my previous girlfriend or if i even have any feelings at all. Im so confused and I feel so shitty about myself. Help me.
don't feel shitty, even if you still have feelings for your ex. feeling guilty means you've done something wrong. if you're not together, and don't have a commitment with her, and you slept with someone else, you didn't do anything wrong. so don't feel guilty, and have fun!
I don't know. Like Seizedbyanger said, I wouldn't say it's really wrong unless you've made commitments to someone. Would you want to get back together with your ex?
Y'all broke up... end of story. I know from long experience: if it's working, the longer you stay in, the harder it is to get out. Hate to say, it isn't any easier next time, either. Some care-free fun might be just what you need. I know it is what I need :cheers2:
Hunker down, young man. You've just scratched the surface of bullshit awaiting you for the rest of your life. Upside is, what doesn't drive you bonkers will toughen your skin. Well, that and being 18, the array of different vagina will be the most accessible for the following three or four years...roughly.
You're very young. "Relationships" at that age are not serious*. It's kinda like a play tea party without any tea - just practice for the real thing. Don't take this stuff too seriously. It's not like you're gonna spend the rest of your life with any girl you went out with when you were 17. *Unless you get a girl pregnant, then it's quite serious. Or you get an STI.
I don't think that's necessarily true. I might be wrong (seeing as I'm also a young one, but it seems to me that there are indeed a few relationships that are indeed pretty serious. Not most of them, but a select few.
As long as you're living under your parents, there's nothing serious about that. Get a mortgage, 2 kids, careers with actual responsibilities, insurance, etc. and then you'll realize what an actual relationship is about.
