Hurt Feelings

I'm very unstable when I'm hurt.... god only knows.

Depending on the situation.... if it's not a HUGE deal, I'll hold in the emotions and do little shit to piss people off to get satisfaction.

If it's a big deal then more then likely I would punch someone in the face.... depends on the mood and the servirity.

Right now... I feel like being a stuck up bitch and ignore everyone who doesn't mean shit at the time and act bitchy at people getting on my nerves at work.

 

No, I agree with this. It doesn't stop us from putting walls up though.

I'm pretty tough when it comes to most things, but the littlest thing can hurt me, I just never show it and certainly never admit they hurt me.

 

i can't remember the last time it came up. i must be one of those wally people too i guess.

 

I agree. I still have boundaries, and one of the most valuable things I'm learning of late is not to invest emotionally in people who haven't done the same for me.

 

I've always felt this way, my sister thinks it's a hangup. I just don't believe in allowing yourself unnecessary pain. She believes love is a gamble, worth the risk before weighing the risk. I believe in weighing the risk. Why gamble everything on a sure loss if you could've known it would've been a loss?

 

Well, I still think it always involves risk and initiation. I'm willing to take a step toward someone, but if that person doesn't take a step toward me, then I'll take a step back rather than another step forward.

 

hmmm...last time my feelings were "hurt" i guess....happened a few years ago when my boys poured beer over my head when i was puking from drinking too much goldschlager. another friend was taunting me, asking me if i wanted any more goldschlager.

in hindsight, its pretty damn funny. they did break our rule of no shaming each other, so i did get them back another time...

but that night i was pissed off. i had to be restrained by a couple of my friends - i was gonna tear my friend that poured the beer on me head off

 

This.

 

I pout. If my feelings are hurt enough I just cut that person out of my life...why deal with that all the time?

 

I don't know to be honest....

 

I knew someone I didn't like.
So I took a step forward.
Knowing she would take one step back.

Because behind her was a big steaming, fresh lump of dogshit..

 

Laugh or ignore it... I have this ability to turn off people talking when they are saying things I don't care about, which includes attempting to hurt my feelings...

If it is a really good insult or attempt to hurt my feelings, I will really laugh and tell them that that was great and it made my day...

If it is someone close to me and they do something hurtful to me, I will just be silent and leave them be until we speak again which will be whenever they speak to me I guess.. I don't hold grudges at all nor get mad, I just move on basically...
And believe me I've had some pretty horrific things, but what can ya' do...

 

I try not to hurt anyone's feelings, but it seems that my feelings don't matter.

 

You just hurt my feelings when you necroposted

 

i try not to necropost, but it seems that internet etiquette doesn't matter.

 

Its called netiquette. Seriously, Undies.....

 

sorry, i didn't want to further confuse the noob...

 

Oh okay. I like to correct people though. Especially you.

 

i understand it must be exciting when you get the opportunity, since i make so few mistakes.

 

Yeah.....Like....You rarely leave commas out or don't capitalize 'I'....