Am I gay? Or just not mature enough?

Basically i'm a 17 year old girl.. I play the xbox competitivley and no i'm not ugly or a nerd.. :S
Well i've never had a proper boyfriend... i've been with someone and then ended it within 5 days.. usually cause went off them really fast..
Anyway.. i am a virgin.. ive had offers but ive never been bothered.. and i always wanted to lose it in a relationship.. if you get me?

Well I went to this house party the other week and i ment this guy and ive been seeing him for a week (i know a new record) and now i just cant be assed to go see him.. i dont really text him... i just cant be assed with him but hes a nice lad and he makes me laugh...

I've never put the option of "kissing a girl" past me ... but i dont know.. the whole thing with me not wanting to be assed with my bf makes me think maybe im gay and just havent realised it yet? :S or do i just need to get used to the idea of having a boyfriend?
i dont know im so confused...

 

Maybe you're just not in the frame of mind for a relationship right now. Nowhere does it say that everyone must want to be with someone all the time. Some people are happier on their own. Your priorities will probably change eventually -- maybe sooner, maybe later. The same thing happened to me a few years ago. Before that shift, I was in no condition, mentally, to be in a relationship.

 

Huge bit of advice. Judging from your opinion on sex and when sex would be best, the question Gay or straight, is useless. This question is more useful when you are attempting to find someone for sex, THAT night. Other than that, just get to know people and you will feel what you feel.

I have to admit it, your on the best path. Sex is always best and more satisfying in relationships with all those emotional goodies - it makes the orgasm and after effects AMAZING and worth every last taste.