i don't understand how someone could think i'm crazy or a bad person for the things i've posted. well, i actually COULD understand but, it's not right anyways! i mean, i could think of just a handful of famous composers, rock stars, and writers who have all admitted to hating someone so much, they wished them to die or even fantasized about doing the deed themselves. john lennon for example........ "well i'd rather see you dead little girl than to be with another man....... cathch you another man, that's the end, little girl!"
and is it incorrect to believe that a woman could very easily "solve"(not neccesarilly SOLVE) the problems of a man with a troubled heart and mind? all i want right now is a good woman to share my life, joy and pain with.
And I could think of a long list of celebrities that overdosed on drugs or killed themselves. Doesn't justify their actions just because they're famous. I think that anyone with that much hatred in their lives is in serious need of psychological therapy. It doesn't matter what the previous relationship did, whether they cheated on you, left you for someone else, stole your car, whatever. A strong dislike? sure. But to devote so much time to express hatred is just plain WRONG! And just because a well known person in history or in the media does teh same thing doesn't excuse the behavior. BEsides, a show of anger and hatred like that only shows how weak-minded and pathetic one must be to have to resort to stalking, destruction of property, or anythign else along those lines. And to wish someone dead? I've been VERY pissed at a few individuals in my life to the point of giving in to the word "hate", but I would never wish death upon my worst enemy! For me to do that would make me a sad, pathetic shell of what used to be a human being. Thank goodness I'm not. I know that my anger and hatred won't do anythign to make me feel better, nor will trying to ruin someone else give me any satisfaction. I've learned to be the bigger man and move on. I've been hurt by people in my past. and I've hurt people in my past. But after time, we began to heal a bit and I've rekindled some good friendships out of those bad times. I let myself move on and heal my wounds. Wouldn't be a bad idea for you. To give into yoru hatred shows that you will always be overpowered by whom you hate. Just let the hate go. You'll thank yourself later for it.