I want to be in a 4 way marriage

this is like the biggest fantasy of mine

I want a boyfriend, and a two girlfriends, and have us all be like a family and bisexual. And we'd just be completely open between one another.

or maybe even a 6 way marriage. 3 dudes, 3 girls. More than 6 would be too many.

Has anyone ever heard of this happening or working? Or people doing stuff like this?

I just feel like a life-long relation between two people is weird. Raising a kid between two people is just weird.
And I feel like being in a couple, but then being a swinger, as in finding different couples to have sex with is also kinda weird. I want to be in like the same 4-6 way marriage, with the same people, live together, sleep together, raise kids together and love each other equally.

I guess thats kind of tribal though? But it's always been my fantasy, my dream, what I think about the most when it comes to anything I could want.

I think raising kids between four or six people would be much much better because the kid would basically always have a mother or father there, or multiple ones. They would always get full attention and care from one of the parents.

The dudes could have dude time if they wanted. The girls could have girl time if they wanted. Between six people nothing would get stagnant, thered always be enough care and support if one of them was having trouble.

Anyone else feel like this?

I feel like the two person relationship is an invention of catholicism and christianity. And the true instinct is to love multiple people equally.

 

i'm not sure this really belongs in the gay group? perhaps more like free love....

but what you're talking about is polyamory, and lots of people practice it. with each group relationship there are different sets of standards and "rules" and whatnot, and when it actually works, it's usually because of a high level of communication and openness between all parties.

i've attempted it, but have yet to successfully be polyamorous. i think maybe because deep down it's not what i want. but it's a beautiful idea.

 

oh. I posted it here cause I was feeling pretty confused about the thing and it was bisexual. I was also curious to find anyone who has actually approached people with this idea.. came out with it... how do you spring it on them "hey what do you think about dating me... and this other person too??"

although I guess thats kind of stupid, if a group of people get close enough it would just happen

yes it is a beautiful idea... do you know of any polyamorous groups out there that have stayed together there whole life?


and are you trippin on acid in your signature pic?