are you willing to ask for oral? My gf doesn't like recieving or giving oral yet I love doing BOTH, she has done it like 2 times to me and I was her first. She doesn't like it because I'm the only one recieving satisfaction yet when she's not in the mood or is on her period shouldn't she just do it? Fuck, I have NEEDS. I ask all the time and all she does is shoot me down, I'm still gonna continue to ask.
tell her you have needs...but try not to sound like an asshole... i personally see oral sex as a romantic favor, that one does to show affection, and maybe if you told it to her like that she'd understand...thats how my girlfriend was, but now oral sex is a regular part of life for both of us. try going down on her as foreplay? it's easy if she likes receiving it, because then you can use the "i did you, you do me" philosophy.
she should "just do it" when she's not in the mood or when she's on her period? too late, shermin, he's already sounds like an asshole. sorry, but its the truth. oral sex is not an OBLIGATION. if she likes doing it, she does it. if she doesn't like doing it, she doesn't. simple as that. as long as the sex is good, its ok, right? if you keep being arrogant about it and asking fer it and thinking that she should just cause she has a mouth, then i don't see anything wrong with her not doing it. talk to her about it and ask why she doesn't like it. and see if she's willing to try and start getting comfortable and take it slow with her. it might be worth it. :]
^I really have done that. I have went down on her but she never would return the favor even when SHE DOES LIKE IT. She has done it, so that's the biggest thing. She just says it feels uncomfortable which ya know I can understand, I do realize I'm being an ass about it but grrrr I really like it and only god knows how many girls have went down on her. I didn't have a sexually active life before her, yes she's my first, but I'm tired of putting my fun aside. but yes, the sex is greatttttt.
