Afraid to give head!

I've been seeing a guy fer a few months now and we had sex once a few days ago. I did go down on him, but i stopped so we can have sex. I'm afraid to suck him off so he cums in my mouth. I've never had a guy cum in my mouth! I'm very sensitive with tastes and i have an overactive imagination. I'm afraid that if it tastes bad i'll feel sick or whatever and have a panic attack! Also, i hope it doesn't squirt in my mouth and i choke! but mostly the taste thing.

I'm sure everyone gets these questions all the time but i need some advice! Thank you all who give me yer wisdom!

 

put a flavored condom over it?

 

hmm, thats true. but condoms dim the pleasure. and even tho both are not my fav, i like the feel of a cock more than a balloon hahah

 

easiersaidthandone, let him come in your mouth once. See how it feels and more importantly tastes. If you don't like it don't do it again.
This is logic 101.

 

i want to do that but if i have a panic attack, it'll ruin a lot of good things i've been doing better with lately. is there any techniques i could do so he doesn't? like right when he's about to finish cut it in my hand or something? or just let it go in my mouth to taste and i can spit it if i want?

 

I'd go with avoiding this for a while.
Don't concern yourself with it.
It should not be about you ruining things...but how you feel.
You don't sound confident about this.
So, don't do it.

 

i'm never confident doing any of this stuff but gotten pretty far with just doing it. but this idk. tastes def bother me. i've always had an oddly potent sense of smell and taste. idk, but id rather just get it over with. once i do something, it'll give me more insight on it fer the future. but lets say i do it, and i choke. and it tastes bad and i feel like im going to vom and i have a panic attack. and then all the work i did to be ok with having sex just a few days ago is out the window and i won't want to do any of that stuff anymore cause i think i'll just feel sick and have a panic attack. that's worst case. i'm a nervous wreck haha

 

It seems easier just not to do it right now.
You are young.
It is not like you will suddenly stop having sex or thinking about giving men blow jobs.
But at the moment you don't sound confident.
So don't do it.
It is strange for a person to say don't do something.
You maybe even thinking: I'll just do it.
Think for a sec. Not happy? don't do it.

 

Public Health 101 reminds you that STD's can be transmitted via oral sex. Latex is our friend.

 

Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with!

If and when the time comes you'll know.

If he does not love you because of that he does not love you at all

 

True. Not the experience she wants though.

 

Is it something you truly want to do? Does he expect it? Is he cool if you don't do it?

Answer those first, if you're doing it because it's something you're interested in then maybe you could use it as foreplay instead of a means to get him to orgasm. He doesn't have to cum in your mouth. Just go slow and make sure you're in a position where it's easier for you to control the action.. helps w/the gag reflex if it's strong for you.

re: taste.. some like it and some don't. I always found it tasty and never felt like it would choke me or make me sick. just be calm about it.

also please make sure you're both tested and until you are, use a condom. safe sex always.

p.s. it's normal to be nervous the first time you go through this. I suggest you try it on this guy and get it over with if you'd like to be able to do it someday ya gotta start somewhere. just make sure it's for the right reasons, and if you have any doubts then don't do it.

 

maybe i will just wait. but i just really want to try it. but i am scared. if that makes any sense?

and it is something i want to do. i just want to experience it. i want to be able to swallow cause that seems like the easiest thing. anything else seems like a hassle. lol and he doesn't expect me too. i already told him i wouldn't go down on him unless it only led to sex. ONLY. this is fer me. and he said he's cool if i dont do it. he says i'm good at it so he should be able to deal with just sex fer now hahah :] cause thats suchhh a sacrafice!

and my gag reflex isn't that bad when im going down on him. i just relax and take in as much as i can and it works out. but im afraid that once cum comes into play. something idk the taste of. something that squirts. something that has a weird texture. i've never been good at trying new things, they always blow up in my face :X

thank you all fer helping me and sorry fer writing novels!

 

There's nothing to be afraid or panic. Maybe you want to start with handjobs first to get used to how things go. That way you can also lick it up a little to try the taste. I've never had a problem with that sort of thing. but all my friends who thought it would be horrible always end up saying that it wasn't as bad. Stuff is never as bad as you think it'll be. Or you can just go for it and see what happens. But with oral, thing gets better the more you do it. just focus on the guy and the pleasure you're giving him.

 

that's ok. think positive and go for it when you're ready, girl.

 

Don't feel you have to let him cum in your mouth. It's not that important. I agree with Mrdude46. Hell, I was 52 before I met a woman who liked to do it!

 

i've done handjobs, ive done oral. ive just never let it squirt in my mouth.

but then where else can it go if i dont let it in my mouth, that doesn't seem like a burden? lol can anyone give me guy-finishing-off tips?

 

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that is true. the taste is my biggest concern. very sensitive. but i want to do it so bad. i think its an internal struggle. lol