To all of you out There Saying I don't Love Her!

I DO love my wife of 16 years. With every inch of my heart, I am crazily in-love with her, and we have a lot of fun together. Never had a real bump in our relationship, except- yes- the Sex. In the 16 years we have been togethor, we have only had intercourse 6-7 times a year. Ever since being married, this started. We did a fair amount of messing around before tying the knot, but literally after our honeymoon, there was always a few week period in between. I am a Man WITH A INSTALLED need to reproduce, and a Sexual drive, which isn't being helped by my wife. Like I said, I love her with all my heart, I truely do, but as a man I do have hormones that constantly give these urges. I have tried talking to her about it, and it's always, "We should love each other and our company, not the sex." Which I do, but the sex is needed. Also, it wasn't like I didn't get the job done for her, I usually made her orgasm 1-2 times, before I did.

Now I know all you feminist, and other softies out there are going to say,

"You don't really love her if you are thinking about going outside the relationship for sex.." Which is 100% false. Like I said, instinct is just kicking in gear, and I can't resist the sexual drive anymore.

 

edit: uh nevermind. I just read your last thread.

 

Errrrr, 16 years, so I assume she's in her 30s or 40s and you think she only wants it 6 times a year?

Me thinks the spin cycle on the washing machine gets it 6 times a day

 

I'd divorce my husband if he didn't have sex with me twice a day

 

*wouldn't

 

exactly/ what the hell is this.

you get a few nice girls , at least one or two that yo ucan test that they have no diseases like hiv, or take their word for it, us eyuor judgement, and get what you want

terrible to be so close to a woman like that, actually yuor wife. and not have bedtime play with her.

part of being jewish is that the woman in a marriage needs to be there for her husband when he is there, in bed. for him. if shes not he has the right to get rid of her /divorce in the actual jewish law and what you are taught to follow.

tell her, you will be very nice, and she will give in i guarantee. hmm. maybe she is getting way more than she can handle anyway form someone else on the side. someoen that turns her on in a more striking and direct way than you are? watch her and follow her and see. if she is dont be mean, give it to her and that will be nice , um or tel her you want it and youre going out to look for it elsewhere unless she strips of and starts jumping on you