I'm 20 and I have been with this girl for 2.5 years. i like the girl (maybe even love her) but im not sure i want to be with her anymore. She a great girl but i want someone more adventerous. When i take her around anyone she turns shy. Also i want her to be more sexually ambitous. although i do consider these issues important and we have talked about them nothing seems to change. Any help?
Decide if you really want to be with her. Only you can do that. If you don't, dump her. And be honest why. Tell her all the things that you posted and if you really discussed them then she should understand. Or just sit there, feeling unhappy existentially, but realizing you're still getting regular intimacy/sex. There's some credit to that route as well.
