should i stay friends with him after he breaks up with me?

i neeeeeed advice about this. me and a guy were together for about 3 months and then out of nowhere he said he needed a break. he said he rushed into the relationship and then it went from he needed a break to he doesnt even want to be in a relationship period. he still wants to be my friend but should i even be friends with him after he does this?? i want him still around so i WANT to but at the same time i feel like he doesnt even deserve my friendship because he hurt me and i feel like why should i be friends with him and give him that privledge when he just broke up with me. what should i do???

 

If it will be painful for you to be his friend I would recommend cutting ties. Same thing just happened to me after 6 months of dating. We've been broken up for about a month and I just saw him with another girl the other day. It felt like someone punched me in the stomach! If you think you can prepare yourself for a situation like that while being his friend, more power to you! I say he doesn't desserve your friendship, but that's just me (again- a little jaded)

 

why should you be friends with him? wtf? didnt you get along? didnt you make eachother laugh? If you were only hanging out with him for sex, then it would be understandable. But if you were people that enjoy eachothers company then you should still be able to have friends.

But if you are cut that he wants to sleep with other women (the reason for what happened, if you are still unsure) then youll just have to forget about him.

i dunno whats wrong with ppl.. sure i get cut up when i see my ex's with other people.. but thats only while im single. while im selfish.

If you trully care about someone then you just want them to be happy. move on and find someone else. The best thing you can do is hold on to the people who you can share inner feelings with, and I find that ex's are sometimes the best because you have already exposed yourselves in front of eachother and dont have much to lose.

but sure, maybe wait until youve found someone else so that you dont feel like you are a sorry sod