Ok, what if he really is too big?

I would add extra lube just to help and take it really sore. My FH is huge, and I find that if he rushes it I usually tear, but the slower he takes it the better I am.

 

Interesting problem. All I can think of is doing lots of foreplay and making sure you're really aroused before he enters you, but you already know that. You can change positions to avoid hitting your cervix, but you already know that too.

 

yes, lube seems to be the best solution here. it's not like you can ask him to grow smaller right

 

My friend had this problem. She asked her gyno why she had to pee all of a sudden during sex and she said that she was getting a weird pressure. The gyno said that he was hitting the bladder and to never let him go. I don't know if she ever did anything about it, other than dumping the guy later, but unrelated to size.

 

I hope big dick doesn't mean big prick. Hopefully this guy was just an anomoly.

 

Lube would probably be your best bet to avoid the micro-tearing, then again, it's going to make him hit that cervix even harder, depending on the position, which can cause more discomfort. If I were you, I'd use some lube and experiment with different positions that make it less uncomfortable as far as hitting the cervix goes! That's what I've had to do with my hubby, specifically during ovulation when my cervix drops. Ouch. Hurts like hell then.

 

how do i work w/it being too big?

leaving enough time in between each bang... haha it's worth it.
sorry, i know this post wasn't helpful at all.

 

monogamy ?