I'm a somewhat straight girl and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I have a fantasy of having sex with a girl, which he has no problem with, but I think he wants to have a threesome. The thought of a threesome is exciting, but I don't know if I can handle the thought of him and another girl. I've been thinking a lot about this and I'm not sure what to do. I'm considering just having him have sex with me while I fool around with the girl, but I don't know if I'll be able to handle him even looking at another naked girl. I'm torn and I don't know what to do. Also, I'm not sure how to go about finding a girl to have sex with because I don't want it to be someone I know or am friends with, I kind of just want it to be a random hookup. Any advice?
I was in a similar position (except I think I knew I wasn't really that straight). My bf knew I wanted to try sleeping with a girl and was fine with it (and would have liked to join in). I ended up hooking up with a younger sister of an old school friend when I went back for a party and she is now my gf. My bf and her have met and get on well, but Jen has no intention of sleeping with him (even though he's love that!) I really want to keep her to myself too - I know it's rather selfish, but I like the idea I'm the only one who's ever done things with her. Feel free to contact me if you want to chat more about it - I have a few blog entries detailing how things happened if you're interested.
you and him should BOTH respectivly agree on the girl.... he doesn't have to join in im sure he'd wanna watch at least, but it would make him feel better if he and you sat down and you let him know you had a girl in mind and him get to meet/talk to her at least. this girl you wanna experiment on isn't going to be your life partner or anything so there should be no problem.
As said, he has to be happy about it too - you say that you might feel jealous about him seeing her naked, but he might also get jealous if you get to go off and do what you want without him having any input at all. The girl might become a part of your life - I had just wanted to try sleeping with another girl to see what it was like and ended up really falling for her. I'm fortunate that Mike doesn't mind sharing me with her (although he'd like to share her with me!) - but some guys might not be able to handle that.
Any suggestions on how to find a random girl? This might be a one time only thing and if I'm friends with a girl or talk to her occasionally I'm just not attracted to her and don't really want to see her naked. In all honesty I just want to try eating pussy, it might sound bad, but I'm just not interested in knowing this person at all.
Don't over complicate things. If you want to have sex with a girl, have sex with a girl. Don't make it into a threesome if you don't want a threesome. There's no reason your boyfriend should be involved in this in any way, unless you want him to be.
I agree - if this is something you want to try by yourself, then just make it the two of you. As long as your bf is happy with you trying it out (and I'm sure if you promise to describe it to him in detail afterwards, he'll be fine)
