She holds it firmly in one hand, sucking and licking on the last couple inches. Obviously it feels good, but it quickly plateaus and doesn't help get toward orgasm (it's not really a lollipop). If I were to move my hips, so as to 'thrust', however gently (her hand still holding me back from going very far), I am soon greeted by teeth. Then I am to "blame.'' On occasion I try to explain how moving up and down on it feels better than just sucking and licking. Do other girls feel a need to keep a constant grip so the penis doesn't wander? Is mere sucking/licking more comfortable than moving one's head? I'm not expecting or wanting to use a girl's mouth as if she's a porn star...but is it that difficult to not accommodate light thrusting? She is unafraid to tell me exactly what to do - if I am not licking her clitoris when she wants or at the most desirable speed. And I have no problem with that...but she doesn't seem to take the same cues. I look forward to being enlightened.
lol, I kinda feel your pain man. My wife does her best and I cant bring myself to tell her that its just not that great. If she wanted to make me cum, we'd be there for hours. I'd rather give her oral attention than get it anyway, so its not a problem for me really.
maybe she has a small mouth. some girls do this so guys dont gag them with their cocks. or they just don't know what their doing, but probably a lot of it has to do with not being gagged. i'm thinking you would not find her choking and spitting, or worse, puking, all over you a turn on.
My gf tells me that I'm the first one of her bf's that's into bj. She tried to do it the first night we were together but I got tired. But she's getting better each day. Recently she even started deepthroating.
I'm in a similar situation. It feels great, but I would have to be there for a while if she wanted me to cum from a blowjob. On the other hand I simply love going down on her, but she dosent like it and wont let me. Life is full of minor annoyances, we just have to make do with what we have.
I'd rather be with an inexperienced girl and have worse oral sex then with some slut who can't count how many guys she's sucked off. Letting her get better at it with you is much more fulfilling.
Holding the base is nice for teasing, ie sucking and licking the tip, but honestly the fastest way to make my guy go over the edge is no hands and just bobbing. And if youre having a problem with the thrusting thing, try standing up with her in front of you or have her lie down on her back, prop her head at an angle with a pillow and fuck her throat. (make sure your angle avoids teeth, and that you give her time to breath lol) and in this position you control the speed and depth allowing, i promise, probably one of the best oral orgasms.
One time, I was with this girl who was a virgin, she had no sexual experience what so ever, and I couldnt even have sex with her because her pussy was so tight and tiny. But she sucked my dick once, and it was the BEST head I have ever had.
see that was me two years ago, my current bf was my first for everything lol and to be honest maybe some girls are just good at it naturally because i made him cum the first time i ever performed it. and also, i dont really have the gag reflex thingy so that may be what limits some of your ladies
