Why do girls 'hate" gorgeous girls--is it the whole attention thing?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by undefeated, Jun 13, 2009.

  1. undefeated

    undefeated Member

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    ive noticed this at work and highschool/college

    what does it matter if one gorgeous girl gets attention from all the guys--so the other girls hate them and exclude her from their group

    i mean all the other girls had boyfriends of their own -so y should they care if guys arent giving them attention. thats what their bf 's are for

    and their boyfriends are never around
    so they dont even know the gorgrous girl exists
    so its not their own bf's they are worried about-y should they care if other guys give the girl attention
     
  2. Dylanchick0113

    Dylanchick0113 Member

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    i believe this is a jealousy thing. I don't understand it either , but I 've noticed it quite alot. I think the girls need the attention only on them to boost low self esteem. It's ridiculous really, but eh, you know alot of women are just flippin nutts like that,,lol
     
  3. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    ...I've never seen a pretty girl excluded for being pretty. :confused:
     
  4. whimbrel

    whimbrel Wasteland Soldier

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    im usually the first to tell a girl shes hot
     
  5. Hilikus

    Hilikus Member

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    I have no problem with "gorgeous" girls..
    Guys & girls have different perspectives of their own sex,
    It usually seems like guys have poor judgement of the opposite sex
    (& vice versa, according to my bf)
    The other day my boyfriend was talking about a girl our age whom he thought was beautiful, which I saw as simply plain looking,
    but I see her personality in the same way.. which there probably lies the difference..
    done rambling.
     
  6. DazedGypsy

    DazedGypsy fire

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    lmao you just love generalizing women, don't you?
    Not all women have jealousy or insecurity issues! There are normal ladies out there, somewhere.
     
  7. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    Same here.
     
  8. Deranged

    Deranged Senor Member

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    i dunno...when i see them get angry, it tends to be over the excessive "ooh, look at me, listen to me talk about all my boyfriends buying me things" shit. a combination of her having a big head and them not really wanting to hear someone go on and on about how she has it better. that's the impression i get at least.
     
  9. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Stop generalizing.
    It all depends on the girl.

    But when they do without further reason - yes, it is because of insecurity and jealousy.

    Sometimes however, even when there isn't a personal experience that caused it, there is further reason. If the gorgeous/popular girl does a lot of whoring or something self-depreciating to get that attention, I would hate her too (and I'm a dude)

    edit: what a coinky-dink, dude above me thought of that at the same time - right on dude above me
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Whats the question....Why do some girls get bitchy about the hottest girl in the room getting all the attention?

    Guys are just the friggin same with the guy that gets all attention from the girls, the only difference is that with guys get all sooky instead of bitchy
     
  11. Deranged

    Deranged Senor Member

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    from my experience, the guy usually gets a lot of props and respect and is usually the one the rest go to for advice
     
  12. Mothman

    Mothman Senior Member

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    I think you're pretty frickin hot.
     
  13. RiffRaff

    RiffRaff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Interesting comments from you ladies. Each one of you, btw, are gorgeous. If only i was 40 years younger lol
     
  14. undefeated

    undefeated Member

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    im not "generalizing" but its always been been i contsatantly see

    and yea if a chick herself is into chicks--then she not gonna care
     
  15. TheDiplomat

    TheDiplomat Member

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    maaaan all girls are beautiful....


    nah thats a lie but i LOVE women
     
  16. Dylanchick0113

    Dylanchick0113 Member

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    haha,,, lol,,, funny shit diplomat,,, lmao
     
  17. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    If they aren't jerks about it and shove it in your face how much better they are than you, then I don't have a problem with them. Personality is everything.
    I'm not made of stone, though. I would probably feel a little jealous, but that's not her fault, so why would I take it out on her?
    I've known pretty girls that were really shy about themselves and developed this "pretty girl shame" that totally ruined their self-esteem and, consequently, their relationships. They were fine around the girls, but then the boys would give them attention and they would shrink back into themselves... I'd never want to cause or add to something like that.
     
  18. DazedGypsy

    DazedGypsy fire

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    right on brotha :peace:
    haha
     
  19. NikkiLou6387

    NikkiLou6387 ~peace~

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    i dont hate on beautiful women for being beautiful. i check out beautiful women. but there are some women who would be beautiful if they didn't portray themselves as a cheap sex object, and some of these women look stupid. many people would call the girls with hair bleached so much that it looks like hay, a bright orange tan, and wearing 4 inch stilettos to class through the iced over sidewalks hott. i think they look fake and horrible, they are just asking to be used, and i resent them for perpetuating disrespect towards women's sexuality. should one of these type of girls show me that they have more to offer than their looks and sexuality, i would take them more seriously.
     
  20. Dylanchick0113

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    good point hunny,, damn goosd point,, go nikit.. give me a dude or chick comfortable being themselves,, thats HOT!!! insecurity is not,, ughhhhhh
     

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