New comforts and sexual fears

Discussion in 'Bare It! Nudism and Naturism' started by Archainon, Jun 24, 2009.

  1. Archainon

    Archainon Member

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    I am posting here because I am fairly new to naturism and so is my family so I am just looking for feedback for comfort I guess. My wife and I have 3 kids ages 5-10 and 13 so there has been a big adjustment in the home lately. I must admit that once the cloths all came off it was very strange at first but everyone adjusted very quickly and the 5 and 10 year old both embraced it instantly but the 13 year old was a bit more nervous and has decided to wear bottoms cause it is more comfortable to him, which is fine, ts his comfort that is important and he don't mind seeing everyone else nude. The 10 year old daughter was the big issue to address initially because she opened up so much after the change and we discovered just how much she was interested in sex. This is the part where things normally get perverse but guess what, its not going to. I admit that pheromone levels were very high and still are in this house because of the women here pumping so many out but never has sex been an issue. I did the unthinkable with my daughter to satisfy her curiosity, I sat down with her and pulled up as much medical information about female anatomy and sexuality as I could find, and because of that all of her questions are now answered and nothing ever went the wrong way :D hehehe, you probably thought I was going to say something else. I was happy to have the chance to explain in detail how the human body works to both the older children and I no longer worry about them making bad sexual choices later because they understand things now. I do still worry about meeting other people that are adults and nudists because the way I view people makes me distrust them. Does sexual exploration happen much? or is it offered much in the naturist community? I know naturism isn't about sex but I also know how the body reacts to others sometimes so I am very nervous about sharing with people about our lifestyle. On a finishing note, My whole point behind how I dealt with our daughter was to remind some people that you can talk about sex in detail with your kids and NOT have to have sex with them.
     
  2. Om Organizer

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    "My whole point behind how I dealt with our daughter was to remind some people that you can talk about sex in detail with your kids and NOT have to have sex with them."

    Jeez, that's a relief. I was really dreading having "the talk" with my daughter. Now that I know I won't have to do her I feel much better.

    /sarcasm
     
  3. Archainon

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    I wasn't aiming at anyone in particular, I was just telling a tale of an experience in my life and I know a lot of fathers are afraid that talking to their children about sex will lead to sex. Especially in a nudist family or those new to nudity.
     

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