Cuckholding

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by TheVampireLestat, Jun 19, 2009.

  1. TheVampireLestat

    TheVampireLestat Member

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    Hey, idk if any of you guys are into this,
    But I find the thought of like, if I had a girlfriend, another guy fucking her either behind my back or me watching. I've never done it and probably wouldn't in real life but it's a really hot fantasy
    Idk if any of you guys find that hot too.
     
  2. sith1

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    Extremely hot

    so hot, that is actually too hot to handle, i guess...
     
  3. Ferrari9999

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    Its hot to think of but I agree... In real life that would suck. Unless of course you knew all about it and when she was doing these things
     
  4. needsomefun

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    i am a alpha male... so i would kill a guy if he tried to do it to me but i have did it to other guys... i think its hot to have sex with a guys girl in front of him
     
  5. Number6

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    If another man is fucking my wife, he is going to have my cock in his mouth while he is doing it, so no, cockholding is not for me.
     
  6. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I find it kinda creepy, and I find it absolutely horrible as a reflection upon the male psyche that this fetish is becoming quite popular in porn (and equally as horrible as far as race relations, seeing how many times it's specifically blacks banging 'em).
    I have however fantasized about me and other males having fun with my girlfriend. But when I get to the idea of another guy having intercourse with her, I just get angry and homicidal feeling.
    So, what does that say about me? =P
     
  7. Trinary

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    Ive been interested in this concept but i'd have to truly trust the girl first, cant have her running off with the other guy in the end and all
     
  8. mastercylinder

    mastercylinder Banned

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    what i dont know doesnt hurt me---ive had open relationships where i just said if u want a break just say u need a break and all is well--but i dont wanna know the details--i wont ask u dont tell---thats just me--now of course if your on a break im on a break too:rolleyes:
     
  9. Trinary

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    Carefull with that. Sometimes it's what you dont know that hurts you the most. Id rather have full disclosure then little hidden secrets. If you know you can get past it, if you dont, it could come back around to bite you.
     
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  10. jnorton47

    jnorton47 Cosmic Traveler

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    In the seventies the wife and I would have sex parties with friends of our all the time. I found it made me extremely horny watching her fucking one of our friends. I could cum just thinking about it. <(^o^)>
     
  11. dollyfizz

    dollyfizz Senior Member

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    I imagine most people that have this fantasy wouldn't realistically want anyone even touching their girlfriend, and this is what I really like. My boyfriend gets a thrill if I get looked at when we're out, especially if I'm not dressed up and I'm wearing something simple like jeans and flats. He finds it thrilling if men fancy me, but nothing more than that. I want to think that my boyfriend wants me completely to himself, I think it's so sweet.
     
  12. Trinary

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    I feel the same about my g/f. Its a nice feeling when other men find what you have attractive.
     
  13. sith1

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    Actually, i am all for someting like that, its the wifey who wont indulge me

    i reckon it may be a tough thing to watch, but still wanna do it...
     
  14. bikimaholic

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    I have finally convinced my girl that we should do this... Only two rules, no kissing and only on vacation in another state. I am totally up to share my girl with a bi guy. then I could try a few things also. we all fantasize about sleeping with others, so lets all sleep with each other together and then their is nothing deviant going on!!!
     
  15. bluedragonfly

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    I have been dating a a guy who is obsessed with this thought.. but I'm the one that is having reservations. Someday maybe!
     
  16. Hipstrocity

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    It's a hot thought. I will definitely be letting my gf have some fun soon...an erotic massage, give the guy lap dance. But her actually fucking a guy would be too much.
     
  17. doktor57

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    Done it multiple times. Ferociously hot. Not for everyone.
     
  18. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I mean, I kinda understand, but I just don't get it. The only way I can rationalize this to myself is by thinking of it as an extension of "I want my boyfriend to only want me". In no other situation is it considered loving to hoard something.

    Can you help me figure this out?
     
  19. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    While I might be interested in participating in a multi-partner session, I don't think I would feel too comfortable if I had a partner that I had a romantic attachment to involved, as I would probably be afraid of permanently losing her to one of the others.
     
  20. jnorton47

    jnorton47 Cosmic Traveler

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    Back in the day when the wife and I were mess'n around like this all the guys she did it with were long term friend that we were very comfortable with.
    They were sexually active and we all knew it was just about the physical fun.
    We were all friends, and liked having friendly sex.:tongue:
    Yes, watching her get it on is a real turn on.
     

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