Confusion

How do you get through a confusing time in your life?

How do you make the hard choice?



I feel like I have to puke, cry, and scream "fuck you you stupid fucking ****" all at the same time.

 

I puke a lot and have really bad stomach aches. I also smoke a lot of pot. We're moving right now, which is stressful adn I go through about an eigth of chronic in a week.
Are you takign the kids with you to Canada?

 

Ouch. I hope it all gets sorted out. :grouphug:

 

For a hard choice, I write it out on paper and give the pros and cons a numerical score (negative for cons, positive for pros). The highest score is my decision.

 

Also trying to figure out what my attitude can change in the situation is helpful. BUT, I am not very good at this. i would rather just put 100 percent of the blame ont eh situation, as oppossed to my feelings about the situation.

 

I pick the choice with the best possible outcomes and hope it comes out that way.

 

i pretty much seclude myself as much as possible, take every day as it comes and just hope the right choice presents itself to me.

 

I do laps in my pool

like 100 of them

 

I don't weigh it up at all really. I don't look at the pros and cons.

I just go with my insticts.

 

i go back to what i've done best before and do that.

things will work out in the end the way it should be is how i see it

 

i usually do anything i can to make it harder than it already is...

 

I'm just really upset, and I can't exactly cry at work, so holding it in is making me feel like I have to vomit.

I understand that.

I was just kidding about the Canada thing... I'm not sure if I'm moving or not. I don't know if it's the right choice...

 

jus bite the bullet, make that hard choice... i know its not easy... but after whatever it is you have to choose... after a while everything will be fine

it will all work out, everything happens for a reason

 

Take a whole bunch of little steps...or take a big jump...It depends on the situation

 

The best cure for hard choice woes I've found is making the choice. Don't be too scared about making a mistake - we all do that daily. Make the tough call. It lifts enough of a load off to be functional and move forward again.

 

no choice is ever a mistake if you learn something from it

 

I know. I"m not sure if it's about the situation, or the SITUATION. I have very mixed feelings.

Me too for the most part, I'm confused and scared about this time.

I was going with that, some things got me thinking today, and I'm just not sure if it is the right choice after all.

This is big jump or stay put, heh.

 

i'm getting to the point where i'm not going to be conservative with my choices...

life is too short to not take risks

 

What if you know that choice could ruin an oppertunity of a lifetime for your best friend?

 

u jus reminded me of a lil rhyme.
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. Forget the risk and take the fall. If it's meant to be then it's worth it all!