That was too much and now I feel terrible :(

Fuck these assholes OP, I've been there man, I know how you feel. Never been twisted up over a girl i never met in person, but I know where you are coming from. And there is no cure dude. I am the youngest of 4 and the only dude, so I have heightened sense of commitment and respect for females. I can't say all, but most females, don't care for it man, it's too easy.

 

oh so im an asshole cause I believe that GOD knows how long hes been stalking this girl cause to me its been 4 years now.


shes NOT interested and YES there is a cure, OTHER GIRLS

 

yes

 

y'all are crazy fools

 

Are you the one he's weak at the knees for?

OP: Pretend your post was someone else's and read it again. That is some weak shit. You need to realize that.

 

no i been here on this site for 4 years and I cannot tell you how many times he complained about "myspace girl" we call her, in the chat. Hes not worth any advice because hes just a huge goof

 

Perfect example of why MOST, but not all, women are not worth it dude. We are in the information age man, a couple years ago meeting your mate online was creepy, now, it happens thousands of times a day man. Nearly all of my friends i have no in TX i have met online and then met up with in real life either through friends or in a public encounter. Don't be ashamed to modernizing dude, fuck the lemmings man.

 

wow that was rude and low

i dont usually say shit like that unless the guy is a real goof ball about someone

funny how people get pissed when they dont hear the advice they wanna hear

ok then...

go on then. wait for the bitch to respond back to your texts which if it isnt happening now, it probably wont ever. good luck in life. you need it.

 

neediness is a turn off

 

First off I'd like to say, I am not 26, I am in highschool. Second, I would like to say thank you to Starscream for not being an ignorant fucker like some people who have commented this post. I appreciate people who are respectful and kind, and not easy to judge and bitchy. I hope you feel good about yourself stacy. You'll need this ability to judge later on in life

 

No need to lie about the age here bro.
Plus, that's a violation of board rules, you should prolly change that..

Anyways, his post may be a bit more agreeable, but your detractors have plenty of good points.
A lot of people don't realize the power their own mind has. Scientists have studied brain reactions to a happy event, and the reactions to remembering the event, and have found the scans to be nearly the same.
You are helping her have this power over you. You are lonely and wanting and you are using those emotions to help your longing for her. Not only that, you are letting them take you to extremes.

Cut it out. It's not good for you, and you are going down a steep and dangerous path.
Get away from her. Take some time to get to know yourself, and learn to be content with who you are. Find your skills, gain some confidence, and learn how to want, rather than need.

 

thanks, that's pretty good advice. I've been trying hard to get to spend time with myself, and get to know me better, but i just can't get past the fact that I'm always on my own, and being by myself is just so damn boring.

 

I suppose I have been there. I'm on my Wii and it takes forever to type so I'm trying to keep this short but I don't see what further advice I can give not knowing your exact situation.
Personally I've never been Mr. Social, but I've definitely learned the hard way that Internet relationships give far too much control, room for interpretation, and just pure distortion.

As far as learning to enjoy yourself, I feel the Internet has helped me, but everyone has to sorta find their own thing. I spent a lot of time on messenger and caught up on my reading. If you're going to cling to every 'buddy' or 'contact' you get, that might be a problem though.
I think my biggest question for you is why are you so alone?

 

well its pretty simple actually. My only friends are from middle school, and they all make me feel terrible, so i don't hang out with them. My highschool has like 100 kids, and going to have like 70 next year, and I just don't connect with any of them, and that's all the interaction i get with other kids my age, so I don't have a social life. this is why i spend so much time online. and that is why i am "alone"

 

Hey dude, I'd just like to tell you I used to be like you, JUST LIKE YOU. But my situation was worse, I'd stalk people's pictures becaused i wanted friends and just seen how they were enjoying life. What you really need to do is get off your computer and enjoy, live your life. Get some new friends and if she doesn't like you, who gives a fuck? Tell her fuck off, LOL! There's more girls than guys in this world. Also, don't be too needy, it's a turn off on women. I wish you a lot of sucess in life and if you need anything, I'm here man.

 

Well, sounds like you go to a small school in a podunk town, so I can feel you on the not being able to relate to classmates thing. I think honestly, though, the feelings you're finding yourself entangled in for this girl are unhealthy. I've had a tendency to do this to myself when I crush on someone too...the best thing to remember is that you're not in love with her, the person, you're in love with the idea you've created in your own mind. It's essentially a fantasy and what I've found is nine times out of then the fantasy is a million times better than the real thing. Another thing to remember is that this girl is not interested in you, and it's very unhealthy for you to hold out any hope that one day she'll change her mind. Unrequited love is a bitch, but it's something most people deal with. Just keep telling yourself that. Also, it may be hard, but high school goes by really fast. Once college comes around, life is going to change like crazy. It's better now to nurture the relationships you do have (with family, etc.) and focus on your own interests and future, get some reading in, find hobbies, etc. Then when college comes around you'll be able to find more people nearby to connect with and form friendships and develop a social life. I hope this helps!