My soul aches....

1st part- deps if its because u miss them.Or because u feel life /someone cheated you both.And what is the gap they left.

2nd part.1st decide what u (might) want from life.

These things can be answered in general terms, IMO.Its all about the specifics.

 

I suggest not taking advice from any of these people.

Why? What is making your soul ache?

 

*gives Piaf's soul a massage*

I was feeling like this yesterday, except maybe not as strongly as you are. I must've looked depressed because mum asked me what was wrong.

I didn't know what it was until I started to talk about it. It was because I was thinking about the future, far into the future when I'm not alive anymore but my maybe-grandchildren would be. I was wondering what's gonna happen and I was scared, and angry at the world.

I couldn't see beauty either.

Maybe you should talk to someone about it, really talk to someone. Blurt it all out and don't worry about what they'll think. Or do what Greengirl said and write your feelings down. And crying always lets a bit of something out.

:iagree:

I'm so sorry to hear about that :grouphug:

I hope you have a lot of supportive people around you at this time.

As far as your life goes, what do you want to do? If you could do anything in the world without restrictions or anyone saying "you can't do that".. What would you want to do?

 

I just want to bump this before it hits the second page

 

Hi,

good advice. But, you guess it, it depends on the person. Some people draw energy from other persons, others lost energy to other persons. So esp. the latter group may gain something from uncoupling from the world for some time. So do I and it's fine.

Regards
Gyro

 

I'd crank one out and then meditate

 

Hi,

it's fake. Just look at the womens pictures some people post in the beautifull thread. They are looking pretty, of cause, but they are often fake. They try to build an imaginary world. And that's what occurs in the real world. Trying to build imaginary worlds, pretending to be someone else or to have a different personality seems common nowadays. Don't go with the masses, look at the small and silent things. This may bring less action into your life. But perhaps that is what you are looking for?

Regards
Gyro

 

What's wrong with his Jew dick.

 

Wow. This would be along the lines of my suggestion.

 

I don't do anything. When I'm sad, I let myself be sad. Long walks is the closest thing to doing something that I do.

I wish you all the best, Piaf.

 

We all know you love shitting.:cheers2:

 

If not to late, I would like to recommend a book too, that you might like.

Jesus sound explosion

 

i would go for a walk in the hills. pack my stuff up and go away camping (as i did this weekend) or go swimming in the sea. or surf.

or if all else fails, have a cup of tea and cry.

i hope your soul stops aching soon piaf. mine did for those few days i was away.

 

my brother died tragically a few years back. it's impossible to get over, but living with it will get easier.

and i didn't know what i wanted to do with my life for a long time, now i know and its worse than ever because achieving it seems impossible.

that's good

 

No, I haven't….

Wow, that was really nice and cute. And good advice.
Seriously, thank you

I can't really answer that cause I have no idea. It'd be so much easier if I knew what I wanted to do with my life. For starters I guess I would like to go somewhere for a while. And isolate myself from everyone. I think it'd be good.

And what if you've been sad for months ? With only a few happy days.

Its not too late
I like the Jesus part
I'll look for it.

 

Awww, I'm really sorry Piaf. Hang in there honey, feel better.

{{{Hugs}}}

 

The death of a loved one will bring that. I spiraled into a 2 years-long depression after my grandma's passing. I hardly ever left bed. I lost my job.

I was very attached to her. Not, that it should be one way or another. I guess, all I am saying is that your pain is now asking to be embraced. And you don't stop living because of it, you live with it. Nothing lasts forever...

If you're despairing though, I would think talk to someone you can trust.

Edit: What made you happy those happy days?

 

When everything is weighing me down, I get a piece of paper and write down the 5 or 6/ 10 things maximum they are.
Then I write a similar number of thinks that could make me happy.
And a similar number of things I could do to change it.
Breaking a problem down seems to help alot.
Spending time with people I can share things with helps.
A new hobby, challenge, social thing to sink yourself into.

Dying is a terrible thing.But it also reminds us we have great opportunities while we are here.
So why not fill it with different things to tell the person you've lost, when u finally meet them again, in the far, far, far distant future.

As for what to do in life.Again, talk to people, write things down.Think of your dreams.The things you feel and not just think.And work back from there.

 

I can't really give you any "good" advice, because I don't know you and therefore I don't know what works for you.

What I did (can't really do any more cause legs) was trek. I'd just go hitchhike or trek for however long it takes to put things in perspective...That would sometimes be a an hour, a day, a week or months....

Now I notice that music really helps...so basically anything that can act as a medium for your thoughts, feelings and emotions to flow through....Expressing yourself regardless of whether or not you're heard can be a very "healing" thing.

 

i do the worst thing you can do, i bury it inside

i drink

i stay in bed and dream and my dreams make my soul ache even more

i pray but my prays go unanswered and i lose faith

i listen to music that makes me wanton and hurt even more

all these things i suggest you do not do

love to you bff, hope that your soul aches a little less as each day passes
you have love in your life and with that you'll heal