No, not the song, lol. My friends introduced me to their friend who is very shy (but he's cool around me) and has anxiety issues. Anyways, he's a virgin and so cute and I want him. I like him, we have a lot in common, but I have no idea how to put any kind of move on or find out if he likes me. I don't want my friends to find out (they've offered lol) because hey, it's not grade 6 anymore. The only thing I know he said is that I am a very cool girl. Not sure if that means he likes me or he doesn't, it's a pretty vague comment. He made a crack about taking off my pants at a get together last weekend, but I ignored it because I feel like if I say anything overtly sexual to him he may get scared hehe. Any advice? I've never been with a virgin before and I am very experienced myself. However, I never put the moves on people til I know they like me. Also, we only hang out with our mutual friends, so we only see each other when we go to their place. HELP!!!
gotta get to see him alone take the initiative--tell him u like hin ask him if he wants to kissu then take it slow from there-dont want to give him performance anxiety on his first time--believe nature will take its course--but u got to get him alone--hell ask him for a ride to the store and kidnap him to a movie--you can do it you seem smart--go for it
Thanks. I have no idea how to approach this situation, I'm not used to making the first move. I mean, I'll make the first SEXUAL move but as far as dating.... I let the guy take over. I gave him a hug when we were walking to our cars... not sure if that gives him any hints LOL
Quoted for truth. Patience is the key, especially with someone who has anxiety issues, you may find yourself having a few "False starts" with him. Just make sure you're willing to invest the time required to crack the shell he's built around himself. Hopefully what you find, will make you both very happy, good luck
Thanks guys. I appreciate the input! I just don't want to put time into it if he's not interested, but I guess sometimes you have to. I'm used to dating guys who are very forward.
