personality vs appearance

Sleep with A.

Relationships are a different story.

I think.

 

Someone with a shit personality will instantly become less attractive to me.

 

^ agreed, my penis would think otherwise though if they were hot. As far as relationships, if I don't see them as a potential life partner, i don't even mess with it

 

C-I need someone engaging and intersting, who's also a great person with good morals (ie-is nice)

 

I voted "Other".

Personality is huge for me. I love a great personality.

Looks aren't important to me. But it depends what you mean by "ugly".

As much as I hate to admit it, we are attracted to good looking people. Although I get tuned right off by a horrible (or lack of) personality. I couldn't date a mean person, and I couldn't date a really "dumb" one either.

There was this guy back home who was a really good friend of mine. He had a great personality, but was what most would call "ugly". We could talk about anything and have a great time, but he was really self conscious, couldn't take a compliment, was used by his friends, and basically acted like he wasn't as good as anyone else.

I couldn't date someone like that.

As for sex, I'm like whimbrel. I can't sleep with anyone who I wouldn't want to date.

 

Aw fuck.

 

pretty much this.

i wouldn't want to date or sleep with some, like really hella fugly. but i don't need some reallly hot either. someone average look with a brilliant personality who shares my interests is what i like and look for.

and same for me in that i wouldn't sleep with someone i wouldn't date.

:cheers2:

 

Perfection

:cheers2:

 

indeed.

plus you have a medal, so you must be right

 

The medal is an insult, not a compliment.

 

what does it mean? i'm sorry it's insulted you.

 

It means I'm the most active HF user. Which means I am online the most out of everyone (lately).

It's so sad I might just cry.......

Not really, but I think it may be a problem I need to adress

 

hahaha,

Do you know what this post itself says about you???

How many cliche's are there that speak to this issue?

Don't judge a book by it's cover is the one that first comes to mind.

If your criteria of what makes a good partner, either for sex or for a relationship starts with, "they have to be hot", you're already fucked...

The package a person comes in, is almost totally irrelevant. Some physical aspects aren't of course, but those issue are about personal choices, not appearance.

As for the argument of, well if I'm not attracted to someone it won't be a good relationship... true, but you are skipping a step in the process... If you aren't attracted to someone based only on their looks, it doesn't matter what you're reasoning is, you are basing your choice on the package...

You want a good relationship with someone... talk to them, find out who they are, find out if you can be friends with this person. See if there is something between you and them that sets them apart from everyone else... If the only thing you can come up with is "they're hot"... tis a good bet they arent the person for you, and you arent the one for them.

 

i can see why this stat offends you.

does this mean you are really a 60 year old wheelchair bound man?

 

I've never said I'm not

 

dude, i know what you mean. these forum things are addicting.

 

I don't have enough information. Of course I can persuaded to go for the 'wrong' option in real life if the situation tricks me into it. Yeah, I'm pretty difficult. It all depends on the little details on the moment. Emotions, looks, behaviour, I don't know, I can't make an absolute decision

 

:cheers2: I relate to these two posts more than the others. I wish more people valued character and intelligence. Maybe more people out there would possess those qualities if that were the case.

 

If you bothered to read the thread then you'd know that she was talking about herself rather than a future BF.

 

I did read it, and don't see your point in the slightest.