orgasms after birth

why are you still with her????

whore... slut... slingy... cant get rid of her?????.. you hate her??? wtf

why are you giving her false hope that she has someone... and that baby is guna fukn bond with you and then your guna leave!!!!!!!?????????


that post made me mad

 

welcome to the world of peter popper

 

im not even going to explain anything i said earlier. when u actually love a girl u will know. this is a big waste of a thread, no one will change his mind. he obviously started this thread to get peoples opinions then because no one really agrees with him he doesnt want the opinions. what a waste of time

 

You don't have to explain anything you said. What you said was respectable and admirable.

People start threads like this all the time for those reasons, and I probably shouldn't get so frustrated but I can't help it.

 

haha me niether. this is the last time i open a thread like this . thanks for the rep by the way =] . !!!

 

i think you should cut peter popper some slack.
i mean, sure, he opened this thread trying to help his gf achieve orgasm, and wants to be a good role model for the child but doesnt want that responsibility, and he loves her but he hates her...

wait...what...

 

exactly finally somone that understands lol hey memi long time no see.

yes i do love her but i hate her so much too. i love her cause shes cute and sweet and beautful. but i hate her cause i cant let go of the past, and i dont want to be with a slut. and i dont want to settle down until iv been with more woman. it may sound bad but i dont want to be with a girl that has had more fucks than me.
i love her but i want tto break up with her. simple.
i admit the sex gets me too, i want to break up, but i want to have sex. i dont want to use the hand for any real period.

 

then do it.
break up with her.
from your perspective, it sounds like things are obviously not going to work out.
you need to get out as soon as possible for the sake of the child, and stop wasting everyone's time.

 

but how about this, iv told her i dont think i can commit down the long run. and iv told her to break up with me, but she doesnt want to. and i dont want to have to break up with her, so we just keep dating. but atleast iv told her i dont think i can commit.

 

unfortunatly for the most part we get along really well.

 

:iagree:

Not good for girlfriend. Not good for you. Not good for baby.

Just leave.

 

Yeah, and you say that you get along really well, but you also admit that on some levels you "hate" her. That's a pretty weird thing to think about your girlfriend, isn't it?

You don't have to tell her to break up with you.
You break up with her. It's that simple. I mean, you say you can't let go of the past, you consider her a slut, and you do not want to settle down until you have had more sexual experiences with other women. If you really can't let go of these things, they aren't going to go away by themselves, and they are going to be like a poison affecting your entire relationship.
If that is how you really feel, and those are the things that you really want to do, then the only thing for you to do is leave her and move on with your life. It isn't fair to her, and especially to her child to stick around with them when your intentions for the future aren't clear even to yourself.
And this is even more so because there is a child involved. This girl you are with, she has a kid, and the kid comes with her. It's a package deal, you know? If you get her, you get the kid. You have to take them both into consideration, and do what is right for both of them.

 

last year i broke up with her 2-3 times... now we've been together so long and have so much chemistry together, which is rare to find, its hard.

we have talked about the me wanting more sexual partners, and she is willing to let me go to a brothel...because there are no strings attached. but i just think i will keep cruising along with things, sometimes natural course ends things anyway. whos to say she wont meet somone else, and if i meet somone else thats just fine too.
but at the moment, we have alot of chemistry, have alot of fun and sex together. and i guess we choose to put those things aside for the time being while we are young and cant figure shit out.
another thing is she has helped me thro so much. when i was whacked out from drugs she helped me when i was most vunerable. she put up with alot i couldnt remember anything, places, each time i sore her it was like the first time. i was many different personlities. she has done acid and pills with me. knows everything about me. so there is that side of things, that can be hard to find in another woman.

i just wish relationships werent so complicated.
simply i think we are a serious couple takeing things less seriously. i have just started uni aagain and she has just started tafe. so its not like we be gettin married for minium 3-4 years. by then we both be grown up alot. or have met other people.

 

Wow.. I can honestly say, you're the only guy I've ever met who's like that..

And I truly began to think all had been lost and we had all became horn dogs. Personally, I'm always thinking about Libertarian politics 24/7, along with trying to find a woman who I'm actually compatible with in this world. By compatible, I don't mean sexually, I mean mentally, a woman who would stand behind me at a activist event or something of the like.

Dude, if you really loved her, it wouldn't be so hard. I can see that you don't have true love with this girl, just extreme lust. Drop it. You're disgracing love and human relationships. If you truly love her, you wouldn't be saying you hate her. hate+love=doesn't exist for the same person. Duh.

Also, you wouldn't have a problem with the child if you truly loved her.

I have had two people in my life I truly cared about. If either of those girls were to have been impregnated, with any man's seed, I wouldn't care. I'd take care of her and the baby; and you know the funny thing? I'd still be successful in my plan for life, because I have a mindset that's strong. I suggest you develop one, because you have a very weak one.

Both of those girls turned on me in the end, and God knows, I still love them both. So there you go.

Grow up please.

 

its not lust after 1.5 years. and yes having a kid is more difficult that u think.

its like a girl that loves a guy but that guys parents have schizophrenia. and inevitably either that guy or your kids would get schizophrenia, so u would u still marry that person even tho u knew what could happen. no i dont think u would. u would make the better choice.
or if the person was bipolar. fuck i would never marry a bipolar person thats for sure.

a kid is quite similar.

 

:rofl:

I'm sure it is.

 

someone needs to pop his peter

 

:cheers2:

 

No man seriously thinks about sex 24/7, not even Hugh Hefner.
If I see a woman I like the look of, I'm only human, my mind wanders a little. But, the majority of the time my mind is free from such thoughts.
I find it too stressful thinking about something like that all the time.
I just feel sorry for football supporters - they must be thinking about having sex with 11 men...Why? I dunno, just sounds funny.

Perhaps the prospect of standing behind you, rather than at your side, puts women off.

 

Tell ya what, if you are too much of a coward todump her because you don't want to jerk off then just let her read this thread and I'm sure she will do the dirty work for you.