I know there have been similar comments posted on recent threads, but I wanted to start one purely on 'coming out': as bi, gay, whatever. This is very relevant to me right now and I wanted some feedback/insight based on this stage of the bi/gay persons life. Right now, I guess I'm bi-curious. Haven't done much with males (apart from a couple of minor encounters), but my body craves it. Been dating women for years and had several serious relationships and dozens of hetero partners. I LOVE looking at women - it's a strong sexual attraction (BTW I am a man), there's so much sexy going on with them. As soon as I look at an attractive women I think sex straight away (which sometimes bothers me a bit! One-track mind??) With guys it's physical, and sexual as well I guess but the attraction is strong physically. The thought of spending my life with a man, you know the every day stuff - movies, shops, dvd night-in etc, has no appeal to me. Love having a women in my life, and I can't keep my hands off them. I've got a beautiful partner of 5 years and I can't keep my hands off her. We have been having sex daily ever since we started dating, and it' still fantastic. That being said I still have same-sex attractions and feel unfulfilled/unthruthful to my soul. I have recently told my partner that I have these attractions and although she's not exactly 'stoked' she wants to give it a shot - providing there are boundaries/limitations and it isn't abused - and it's SAFE! Still, it's not that easy 'teeing up some action' with others when you've got a partner you're dedicated to an love. But I know I can't live life only having sex with women as I will go mental!!! It's been tough deciphering 'am I gay/bi', whatever, and I know that I need to experiment to put my soul at ease. I couldn't live without a women and in particular my angel of a partner, but despite their approval it's still a difficult time. Thoughts/experiences??
