My parents kicked me out!!!

So my 18th birthday is tomorrow and my parents gave me a card that had my car title signed and a note saying I had to leave because I am SO disrespectful. Well first off I am not disrespectful. They are literally just putting words into my mouth and they are afraid cause they don't have control over me anymore. I have been dating my boyfriend Kevin for 2 years now and I moved in with his family today. I am so hurt because my mom lets my step dad have such control over her and she is MY mom and she be there for me no matter what but she is not. My parents HATE my boyfriend for no reason at all. Probably because we are in love and they think we are too young. Things have always been very stressful between me and my step dad. My dad passed away when I was 9 and I have received ss checks every month and my parents used to always take the money and spend it on bills or whatever and since i am 18 they said I can just take it.
But anyways, where I am going with this is that I just need some advice. I want this relationship with my boyfriend to last and for everyone to just be happy but I don't know what to do. I can't go back home and my boyfriends family has always been there for me. I just love my mom so much and I don't want her to think i am not respectful. She is very cool when it's just me and her but around my step dad she just takes his side all the time. IDK.. it's really frustrating and she really hurt me today. I just don't wanna loose my mom.

 

are you my long lost sister?

 

I'd say just see where things go from here and to keep in contact with your mother. I'm sure she loves you and will always be there for you. As far as your stepfather is concerned, I think he may be a manipulator, but in reality I have no idea. I hope everything works out for you, there is no reason why it should not.

Peace,

Mike.

 

Your saying that you're not disrespectful, yet you also say that your parents have no control over you. You really need to have a heart to heart conversation with your mother and find out why she thinks you're disrespectful, that is if you can't figure it out for yourself.

 

Good advice, brother. By the way, I just listened to you. Pink Floyd is THE SHIT.

 

Sounds like they're tow very selfish people that have been looking for the day you turned 18 to kick you out so they can live their lives without you bothering them. I'd leave, make a plan for your life with short and long term goals and dont look back. Send them a card at Christmas but keep your distance. Who kicks a 18 yr. old out like that?

 

Do you mean provide you with a place to live, that's why they pay Social

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Security. And doesn't it stop when you turn 18 if you don't go to college? It's that statement and the other one about how they can't control you that make me wonder about your attitude. But hey teach them a lesson and be successful

 

Yeah, show them. Be responsible and respectful. Someday you will see it more clearly.

List to this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlHdjjHNEC8

It's true. The older I get the wiser my parents are.

 

Write what you posted to your mom in a letter.

 

yea umm, I was also asked to leave at that age. It just comes with being 18. Give it another year or two, you'll all get over it.

 

I actually kind of wish my Dad would have kicked me out at 18. I probably would have gone right to college instead of sitting on the couch doing bong hits and playing playstation for a couple of years.

 

Giving her the news with the birthday card was a little mean-spirited, though.

 

Im guessing Mom paid the internet bill...since this was posted on the last activity day

 

trying having parents that cant make up their minds...."YOU"RE KICKED OUT!" 2 hours later... "ok you can come back now"