Im nineteen...

and have never had a girlfriend I guess i've been very shy most of my life, and now that i am more social, i just dont know where to start with getting a girlfriend. i know nothing about dating, hooking up, what to say/do, catching signals, none of these things... it really sucks ass, cause not to be egotistical, but a girl could definatly do a lot worse than me, i know im not ugly, and im a damned nice guy if i must say so myself...anyways that's my confession

 

that's totally okay, i know plenty of 19, 20, 21 year olds who've never been in a relationship. it will come when it comes; don't sweat it.

 

That's really cool of you, thanks for the encouragment, makes me feel a lot better!

 

don't worry, I'm 23 & not that experienced myself. And none of the guys I like like me the way I like them, so I'm alone & it sux big time

 

don't worry about rushing things. just let time and situations work themselves out. just be yourself.

 

A good way to start out is to just have fun, where ever you are, what ever your doing.
This makes you look real confident, and just talk 2 girls like you'd talk to a friend or a family member. Just mosy on up to someone and say hi and introduce yourself. Also, the more girl mates you have, the more comfortable around them you become.
Of course, that awkward silence always comes along and kicks you in the arse when trying to talk to someone you like. I duno how to deal with that yet lol, its hard to get past.
Hope that helps ya.
good luck in future.

 

Hey I'm 20 and never had a meaningful relationship/someome to call a 'boyfriend' either.
sympathy man - I know it sucks. hopefully things work out for you, and i think they will, because nice guys are thin on the ground...it's a great quality to have.

 

just tell this story to every girl you meet until they give you pity sex

 

haha, no, dont do the above no one will buy it unless she is 12..hehe

But in all seriousness there is nothing wrong with that at all...
If you go out girlfriend hunting, you will never find one that way, just relax and dont worry to much about it..
sorry advice sucks, but good luck..

 

Yeah, i've thought about something like that...maybe i should just go to a party with a sign on my back that says "seeking hot girl to break my sorry ass in"

that would work right?

 

...just make sure your wearing a tutu

 

hey, my advice is just to be friendly with lots of girls and maybe one of them will take your fancy more and it can move on from there. But don't force it, desperation is easy to detect! just roll with the punches. im also 19 and a lot of my friends havent actually been in serious relationships before, but it doesnt really matter, we're still young we should be out having fun not settling down with a partner. well thats what i think, things can get too complicated. one of my friends has been with her boy for like 5 years or something and i think thats just crazy at our age.

 

When I was going out with my ex I thought I could never live without her. But 2 years later I don't even care that I haven't had a girlfreind in a while.

 

Grrr were in the same boat ahh im too shy.I'll eventally get over it. :H

 

I'm 18 & I've never had a signifiicant other either. You know what I really don't like? When 11,12, & 13 year olds start dating. I mean, seriously...do they honestly know what it takes to build a meaningful relationship? Or maybe they're just too busy listening to Aaron Carter...
Getting to my point: there's no harm in taking it easy. All you gotta do is listen to that song by the Eagles....

 

I more or less have the same problem of being horribly shy when it comes to anything physical or talking about it but I don't let it bother me too much. I guess that's the only thing there's to do about it. Getting all worried about it isn't going to help much.

 

i'm very shy and i never had a real relationship either

 

my brother is 19 and never had a GF either. but i've been considering the fact that he's gay since i was about 12.

 

Your 19 years old..Got ways..like a baby child...
Your 19 years old man..got ways..just like a baby child..


Aint nuthin' I can do to please that man..
To keep that man,satisfied!..




gotta love that muddy waters..

 

do you have friends?


if you have friends..quit complaining..then at least you aint that kinda lonely..

that kind of loneliness is the worst drag of all,besides heartache.