I've been having anal sex with a dildo for two weeks, 8 sessions total, 1 hour each. Dildo is 8 inch insertable by 2 inch wide, and I'm using plenty of Astroglide gel lub, now I know astroglide is numbing, but I don't think that has anything to do with this. Basically at first I could barely take it, and enjoyed it a lot. But now it's not the same, and only way I can describe it, is I lost feeling there. Should I give it a break? What's going on?
Continue but use something a lot smaller. Your trying to fit 10 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag. It's just not happening and your butt is trying to tell you that. Over the years I have went from a fingers width at first to toys in excess of 10+ inches around. I could do much bigger than that with ease but my pelvic bones prevent enterance from anything bigger. I have not done anything that large in a year or two because of the dangers of it. Stick to something medium sized once you find "that perfect toy" my girlfriends favorite to fuck me with is a 8" by 2" jelly vibe. I preffer a 12" by 3.5" dong when I am by myself. Good luck in your ventures, but remember that lots of lube is key (silicone or water based gel lube) and listen to your hole, It will never tell a lie.
If your dildo has one of those suction cups you can attach it the wall. Then back up SLOWLY. If you tilt it at an angle you may get a better feeling.
I have also built a tolerence to anal sex. IDK why. My husband got me into it, I had to stimulate my clitoris to get over the pain. It would make instant orgasm, but now they are not the same. Even if I wait a couple months in between. I used to have one big orgasm the whole time, and now I still orgasm but they are not as long or strong as they were before.
First, astroglide does not numd you at all. second, you are getting used to the size and your ass is stretching. Go with a bigger dildo and keep using lots of lube. When i started I could get a small dildo in, then I got to where I could slide a 8oz coke bottle in. I havn't kept up with it so now I can only take a large dildo. It will stretch and it will shrink.
