Discussing Masturbation

As I've mentioned in another thread, I've noticed that masturbation & the open discussion of all aspects of it seems to be generally quite commonplace among women, but conversely tends to be a subject avoided or even denied by many men, seemingly in the mistaken belief that admitting to others that they do what everyone else does somehow affects their masculinity.

Fortunately, the anonymity of these forums tends to encourage more honest reactions.

Personally I have no qualms about openly discussing masturbation in real life, be it with friends, family, or any other acquaintances, so I find it difficult to understand why anyone else should find it embarassing - even down to the age old problem of being too embarassed to purchase condoms, let alone sex toys.

How easy do you find it to talk about masturbation to (for example) ....

Peers
Siblings
Parents
Other Family Members
General Acquaintances
Teachers
Doctors
Clergy

And does it make any difference as to whether the personis the same or opposite gender to you?

 

I don't discuss it- in fact if it's ever mentioned I have objected to it being discussed.

 

Masturbation is a myth. It's not real.

 

ya...why discuss something that I never ....never ever do?:leaving:

 

Ive talked about it with friends, siblings, teachers, never with parents lol. I've heard of clergy in passing.

I dont really break it down liek that though - I'd talk to my brother or younger sister all day, but not my oldest sister. Its just because of "how" they are. Same with teachers, friends, etc. Some people are OK talking about it, and some arent. I personally will discuss it with any open minded person who wants to discuss it.

 

Never talked about that with parents/sibs. only talk about that shit with my girl.

 

Other than fun, what's to talk about?

 

never talk about it really, everyone knows everyone else does it

 

We NEVER talk about it with others (outside this forum). One reason is that, maybe, others "... can always spot a masturbator..." and are testing us, leading us on, or pulling us off balance, to see if we'll give ourselves away (kinda our weird side, huh?).

Although both of us are avid masturbators, we think it's better to keep it in the closet.

Really. The forbidden fruit aspect of it is part of what makes it sooooo much fun! And mutual masturbation is an absolutely decadent way to spend the evening with your lover. The one thing that would make masturbation even better would be to outlaw it.

We would have, more than likely, never discovered each others masturbation addiction, except we made the inevitable discovery during a two week vacation together.

And we may even, some day, get married, as mutual masturbation has proven to be a powerful bond.

 

I speak it to my dogs and no one else.

 

So did the "educating" yourself about your dad's penis include experiencing what it felt like to have a penis in your mouth? Something tells me you have probably put his penis in your mouth while he was asleep, or have at least thought about it. Any truth to that?

 

I have talked with so many other men who admitted to wanting to see their fathers' cocks, with mixed results. I have to believe it is a near-universal need on the part of young males to see the cock that fucked them into existence to begin with.

There are also a lot of young men who would like to see their mothers' pussies, but fewer will admit to it. I have talked with several whose fathers made it possible to look at their mothers' pussies, either in photos, or through spying, or by telling the wife/mother to take her clothes off so the sons could look at her.

I did help my own sons see their mother naked, but I did not have to resort to any of those tactics. They would be in the bedroom when she came from her shower naked, and they got to sit and look at her body for as long as they needed.

Later they asked what "that" was with the hair on it and I told them it was her "Pussy"! After that, they would ask "Can we see Mom's pussy again?" and I would say "Sure!"

 

i know what dicks, pussies, and tits look like.
i dont need to see my parents junk.

 

lmao

 

I think you may be in the wrong thread man.....:auto:

 

Its a regular conversation between me and my girlfriend. and my buddy's and i talk about it off hand (ever since we learned that one of our crew can get off without touching himself... that's some tantric shit right there)

My girl and i think it's a very important part of our relationship. both mutual and auto-erotic behaviour. If you don't know how to pleasure yourself how the heck are you going to instruct your partner?

 

I try to talk to humans as VERY little as possible

 

I talk to myself about masturbation... In a licentious and awkward kind of way.:blush5:

 

i think i can reccomend a good therapist that can help u.

 

Could you recommend a slippery hand soap instead?