ok so today i finally tried to have sex with a friend of mine he was a virgin n we sorta agreed for me to teach him (hes 19 yrs old) we was foolin around n watever n his dick would get hard for a while then get a soft it went like this for a while then i was giving him head n he was like moaning (enjoying it) n his dick would do the same i couldnt help but chuckle a lil cause i was like wtf? well he couldnt even get it hard enough to even put it in so he just ate me out till da big o but come on wat gives why the hell did that happen he couldnt stay hard that had neeeeeeeeeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvver ever happened with any other lovers ive had idk y it happned i would greatly appreciate it if someone could help me out here
I would imagine he was nervous and since the two of you are already friends that made it worse. He probably just needs to get more comfortable about the situation and once he does he will probably pop off instantly and remain hard for more. I have been nervous like that before and had a similar problem once. Normally I am extremely hard even after I pop off so I am thinking that his problem is just nerves. Give him a hug and try again maybe.
:iagree: that explains it for me thanx for the help i think that was the problem i really appreciate it
Odds: 10% Nervousness on his part 90% Female Friend + Male Virgin + Goes Soft = Gay Guy Although, I do highly commend SG Girl's efforts. An 18 year old female friend giving a blow job and willing to fuck; it doesn't get any better than that!
hes not gay n he would get hard at times but then he would go soft im now guessing he was just nervous n ill just take that last part as a compliment
Don't get ur panties in a knot. I didn't say you did - but a third party who doesn't know him might do it to see if it all works.
Seems normal to me. The first time I had sex, I was so nervous that it took seven hours for me to get hard. Luckily, she stayed with me all that time (she took a nap). Finally had to resort to washing a tranquilizer down with some Budweiser, and a little while later, she was amazed; I was able to do it. Scariest night of my life.
You try too hard. I was my boyfriends first time, and the intercourse aspect wasn't planned. We were just having a good time touching, playing, licking, kissing etc. He was so horny that intercourse worked perfectly. If you can't get it the first time, who gives a shit? Try again the next day and just have fun with the foreplay.
I didn't realize that in this day and age communications between two partners would be so bad - or that one or the other wouldn't realize that first steps sometimes stumble. Well, that sure tells us about sex ed in the good ole USA.
