Disappointment and heart break.....

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  1. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    How do you handle it?
     
  2. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    I force myself to move on....even if I don't want to.
     
  3. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    dunno yet
     
  4. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    masturbation.

    nah, just kidding

    I make sure I am busy.
     
  5. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    I doubt you've gone through your whole life without ever being disappointed.....
     
  6. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    Don't those go dick in hand? :eek:
     
  7. FunHogg

    FunHogg Senior Member

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    Disappointment seems to be never ending. I can live with that.


    Heartbreak? Only happened once. I won't let it happen again. (Famous last words, I know)
     
  8. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    If disappointment is never ending, why do we continue to get disappointed?
     
  9. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    I just surround myself with all the things
    that make me happy and optomistic ...

    I forget all about my woes.
     
  10. FunHogg

    FunHogg Senior Member

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    Because we have unrealistic expectations of ourselves and others?
     
  11. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    i thought the disappointment was with the heart break - never had that together

    sure, i've been disappointed in the past. i just move on to the next opportunity
     
  12. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    I get depressed for about a day before the naive child in me sets in and I just forgive and get over it. I've been repeatedly disappointed my whole life, so now that I'm an adult and can do things just because I want to, it makes it even worse to be disappointed. I guess it also sucks because I bend over backwards to make sure I follow through with stuff because disappointment sucks and I'm too nice. :(
     
  13. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    by moving on (sometimes slowly) and correcting the situation or forgiving the person that caused it (this includes myself if I caused it)
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i get drunk and take it out on you guys.
     
  15. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    What if they're fleeting?
     
  16. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i enjoy plotting revenge in complicated and diabolical yet harmless ways......voodoo dolls can be fun........the drunken night out followed by the all night coke binge....meaningless sex....the arms of an even more previous ex.......some careless and frivolous spending....weekend at parents or sibling....more alcohol.....cursing....you know,,,a variety of stuff to keep on goin....,at least it works for me
     
  17. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    If it wasn't for disappointments I wouldn't have any appointments...

    Seriously, they permit me to hone my coping skills and learn to expend less energy in expectations. Without setbacks and unpleasant surprises I wouldn't have developed the inner balance needed to stand on my own two feet in life.- and it's more than mere standing- it's ability to withstand a punch and remain upright.
     
  18. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    disappointment- Just get sad but move on

    heart break- tell myself I can do better
     
  19. TheChaosFactor

    TheChaosFactor Senior Member

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    Do you always believe you can do better or do you find yourself struggling to agree with yourself on that point?
     
  20. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    You will always have things in your life that cheer you up,
    they may change, and they will, but they will always exist.
     

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