Do you still give head to your partner as foreplay

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Narcolepsy, Jul 11, 2009.

  1. Narcolepsy

    Narcolepsy Member

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    if you're having sex regularly?

    My friends tell me that their boyfriends finger them a little before sex and then they jump right into it. Ever since they started having sex with their partners, they pretty much stopped giving head unless they're on the rag or something.

    This is weird to me, because whenever I have sex, there's extensive foreplay. Maybe I'm just boring, but before sex, we always kiss and undress each other, then he fingers and eats me out, and then I give him head for a little while.

    Also, is the guy less likely to last longer during sex if you give him head beforehand?
     
  2. MaryJBlaze

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    lots of head still, and we've been goin at'r for years....it gets both of us a lot hotter for the sex to follow.
     
  3. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    I am very impatient when it comes to sex, so sometimes I forget to do it, but most often, yes, I still do... for him. I don't really like it that much, myself, so when he's ready we usually get right into it. :D
     
  4. drumminmama

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    of course.
    to ejaculation? not always.
    but the idea is a wonderful tease. there is nothing like the response when there isn't time when I tell my partner that I can't wait to taste him, or that I can't wait to be on my knees ...etc.
    now, I'll tell you an enthusiastic partner who returns the attention will always, always get more and with far more enthusiasm.
     
  5. kym1979

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    Absolutely positively YES !!! Because I love to give as much as receive oral with a guy or girl :)
     
  6. Duck

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    We enjoy the full range of sexual activity each and every time.
    If they don't; it's their loss.
    Don't think yourself boring; if any thing, think them boring - they're the ones missing out.
     
  7. Narcolepsy

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    I'm glad I'm not the only one. But guys, do you cum sooner when you get to the actual sex if you had received head already?
     
  8. Duck

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    Depends. I'm still learning control, and it's been a long time, but I'm slowly gaining more and more.
    If she gives me head before, and I cum, I typically have to 'recharge' a bit. If she gives me head briefly, it typically has no effect. If she gives me head for a long period of time, but not to the point of orgasm, intercourse will definitely be on the shorter side.
    Now, I haven't had intercourse without a condom yet so I don't know if this will stay my consensus, but the best parts of intercourse are her enjoyment and the intimacy of it all - so length is quite meaningless to me except for trying to sustain her pleasure.
    So, if she wants to give me head first or give me head a separate time, is all up to her.
     
  9. Narcolepsy

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    Hmm okay. Well normally when I give head, the guy blows his load in 5 minutes or so regardless. Hah I'm getting so self conscious about my skills in bed.
     
  10. Duck

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    Well I typically last up to around 5 minutes or like 30 or can't make myself finish through penetration, so that doesn't sound too abnormal to me.
    What does sound abnormal is how shy you seem to be getting from talking about it =P
    If he's not complaining, I'm sure you're doing just fine.
     
  11. Narcolepsy

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    Oh I'm not shy about sex at all. It's just I haven't done it in over a year and the guy I'm going to be having sex with as soon as he gets back from vacation is the same one I've wanted my whole life, along with every other girl I went to school with. He's a sex god and the best looking guy I've ever seen so I don't want to disappoint him or anything in our short summer fling.
     
  12. MinnesnowtaBornAndLaid

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    I only like 15-20 minutes of foreplay at most. I cannot stand kissing for longer then a few minutes. Honestly it just gets boring to me especially when theres no tounge action. I love a passion kiss outside the bedroom in public or anywhere else but I can't do it for 5-10 minutes. I've almost just said fuck it and turned on the tv because she wouldn't stop kissing and wouldn't let me make any advancements because she wasn't quite ready for any oral or sex. I made that quite clear I didn't like kissing for 10 hours straight after it happened the 4th or 5th time. For every 5 times I eat her out before sex, I maybe recieve head once, and its for a minute. Two if I'm lucky. So I just stopped giving about a month ago and maybe she'll get the hint. (I've said it many many time oral goes both ways and i don't feel like repeating myself another 1,215,543,743 more times..) I hope to go back to giving oral to eachother before sex soon and her fucking me after sex. She hasn't done that in a while either. I think we just kind of got a litle lazy maybe? I say keep what your doing.
     
  13. Triple Ace

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    Well I'm a guy, and no my girl doesn't really give me head that much. To be honest, I'm one of the few guys who isn't into head.

    I love eating her pussy and ass, so I do oral for her, but she doesn't give me head. But I do get to have both anal and vaginal sex very often.

    I prefer anal over oral sex,, hands down. My girl loves anal, but really isn't into oral that much (she has a terrible gag reflex), so I just told her to omit giving me head, and give me more ASS! So she has complied with our agreement. My wife cannot suck too well, but she takes it in the butt like a champ.

    I don't even miss getting head, as long as I get to fuck my wife's beautiful butt, I don't need anything else extra.

    I don't really need warming up, I get hard pretty easily, especially when I know I'm gonna get in her ass. I actually get really hard just eating her out, the combination of the anticipation and watching her writhe around in ecstasy really turns me on, I'm usually already leaking before it even goes in.

    I love being smothered by her ass, I don't know why. There is something about being tongue deep in a chicks ass with your face stuffed in her crack between her big butt cheeks that sends me through the roof!
     
  14. curious78

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    if we are both tired and in a hurry no we just start kissing the fuck.. if we have time.. we'll lick each other til our mouths are tired...

    we didn't have intercourse before we married so we perfected our oral skills on each other! :D
     
  15. Kiyohiko

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    I love giving and receiving. My gf isn't usually into receiving much though, as she prefers to be fucked. It probably doesn't happen as much as I'd like, but she's gotten significantly better about it. :)
     
  16. NikkiLou6387

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    my bf and i have sex about 3 times per week on average, but at least once a week we do other things without having sex fingering/handjob/footjob and/or going down on each other. most of the time we have at least a few minutes of foreplay to make sure that he's hard and im wet. also, i usually play with/suck on his balls while he's putting on the condom.
     
  17. cfnm_mark

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    My wife likes to lie back and read erotica while I caress and tongue her slowly to orgasm. To me its natural that she has an orgasm during our foreplay and before she satisfies me. I guess thats all part of my submissive build-up.
     
  18. KozmicBlue

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    I love giving head to my fiance, he gets it pretty much everyday.
     
  19. sg girl

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    i always give head
    everytime before i have sex with my lover
    as for the recieving
    its not all the time because i get really loud
    so i just perfected my own oral skills on my lover
    i think its preety normal to give head as forplay
    i do it allllll the time
     
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