....well i don`t really care as long as i am happy too. and even if i am not, happy people are happy people...how in the hell can they annoy me ? i just don`t care.
Happy is a mood. Usually people who are happy all the time are faking it, and won't be honest about their true feelings with you are irritating. Nobody is happy all the time, people have bad days. But their are people who are genuinely content. Usually through years of wisdom they've evolved the ability to be comfortable and see the brighter side of any situation and work to change them, while being completely decent despite whatever challenges they are having. Someone being in a good mood can cheer me up, but it's ephemeral. Someone who's always bubbly is usually faking it, and it's irritating. People who are content are the people you should surround yourself with.
And the converse, many intelligent people can be irritatingly serious. It's all about sensitivity. If you're not sensitive to those around you, your happiness can become intrusive, disrespecting (perhaps unwittingly) the other, more pensive one. The serious, thoughtful person, though less intrusive, is an island, in the extreme isolating him/herself in their thoughtfulness. The idea that they are being disturbed by the mood of another may be real to them, but may feel uncomforable to the one who is happily giddy, as if being shut out. There's no rules here. People have a right to their thoughtfulness, as the ponder life's meaning and prioritize their shopping list. Insisting that my joy be assimilated by all is a false expectation, bordering on fascistic joy propagation, which may issue in an agenda of proselytization of the thoughtful into the "joy-joy club". On the other hand, the thoughtful one may receive great benefit from taking a five-minute break from his/her pondering, and may even get a blowjob as well. Priority lists aren't everything. It's about mutual respect. I feel your pain. You feel my balls slapping at your back door. I'm happy, you're happy. Everyone's happy.
im am usually always a positive person. i look at the bright side of everything. it tends to be annoying sometimes. then i look at the bright side of that!