Girls that have a boyfriend, but they still flirt with other guys???

I don't get girls who have boyfriends and then at the same time they act as if there intrested in other guys???

 

Maybe it's because they are interested in other guys

 

yeh maybe they are looking to upgrade the defective unit they have

 

Are guys suddenly uninterested in other girls just b/c they have a g/f, I think not.


Even married people flirt outside of the relationship.

 

Yay you. Sexual attraction, however, is a biological reaction. That doesn't mean you have to act on it though.

Oh what bullshit! I flirt all the time. It's fun. It's healthy. It's fine when it's between adults who understand the boundaries. Flirting with someone doesn't mean you want to fuck them. Hell, I'm as straight as they come, but I still flirt with gay guys!

 

Flirting lets me know that I'm not one half of a relationship, that I' am still whole and that I can still be me without my partner.
Yes I probably have low self esteem, but dont you think its flattering when somebody likes you.
I just totally hate that isolated feeling of simply being "so and so's girlfriend" and nothing more, I guess flirting is a way of exercising a form of power....

 

There are two kinds of "flirting". Flirting that you can do in front of your partner and flirting you would not. The latter is wrong. I wouldn't call it cheating but I do call it dishonest and you cannot have a relationship without trust. when my boyfriend and I go out or go to concerts and festivals, we both have a tendency to make small talk with attractive people. I think it's healthy. On the other hand if I was acting in a way that would not be acceptable to him, that would be wrong of me. Girls that act interested in others when they are in a relationship usually are just not satisfied in the relationship. I'm not sure your position, if the girl is interested in you, or it is your girl that is flirting or if you are just curious. If the girl is interested in you, tell her you are flattered but you would rather not disrepect a fellow brother. If she's so unhappy with her significant other and wants someone else- be honest with everyone and go for what she really wants instead of leading people along.

If the girl is yours I'm really sorry and you probably cannot confront her without an arguement if she is in the wrong. Tell her flirting is fine as long as she would do act the same in front of you. If she wouldn't, then what she is doing is damaging the relationship and it needs to stop, or she can go elsewhere because you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with YOU!!

I wasn't really sure your position on this but I hope this helps!!

 

but it doesnt really work like that you know

One partner can think its okay for the other to act as they do, and and yet still the other person isnt happy

its because different people have different ideas about how far is too far
*sigh*

 

Excellent distinction. Couldn't have put i better myself

 

I don't think you should let your partner rule you. There are two types of flirting: serious and just for fun. Even if your partner doesn't like it, I think it's fine to flirt with others in a light and fun manner, however if you wish to stay in the relationship you're in, I'd be careful about the more serious type of flirting, especially if you're leading the other person on.

 

Well I'd have to say that you overdid it just a bit. Flirting is not cheating by any means. I don't condone it when anyone is in a relationship, but it's innocent fun.

 

What i meant was like how a girl like goes out with a guy for like 4 yrs and then she stiil hits on other guys, but at the same time shes "exlusive" with her bf.

 

hmmm...

 

???? Go on speak up, you know you want to

 

You got that too, huh?

 

He gives me that every week

lol

 

Ooops. Didn't mean to intrude

 

I dont mind, if I did, I wouldnt put it here

indtrude as much as you like

 

Well I'd intrude some more, but then I might get accused of flirting. And as well all know, flirtation is the work of satan!

 

yeah, aparently so *le sigh*