This question is geared towards older married guys who had the urge to suck another guys cock. :cheers2: What caused you to have this desire? Lack of sex in your marraige, just curiosity and looking to experiment? If you did it, what did you enjoy the most about your experience? Do you still do it or have you lost your curiosity?
I'm older and have been a married guy in the past. However, my desire for M2M oral-genital contact goes back to when I was a child. And honestly, it pre-dates even a conscious sexual awareness or any knowledge of what sex of any kind (gay or straight) was. When I was probably no more than 8 or 9, a friend of similar age and I would fondle each other and sometimes lay down together with our pants down while making genital contact. I still remember how warm his hard, little pecker felt against my stomach. During one of these sessions, I asked him if I could "kiss" him on his dick. He wouldn't let me. Fortunately not long after, my cousin of the same age suggested taking turns putting our dicks in each other's mouths. Obviously I was all for that and still remember that first taste of cock, even after so many years and so many other cocks. As a child, I was never molested by an adult or anything of that nature. I had what would be considered a pretty normal chilhood in a relatively normal family. I honestly believe that my desire to and enjoyment of sucking cocks feels very normal and so I just enjoy it and don't worry about it anymore. For this reason I consider myself bisexual but have never really felt romantic towards another man. However, I'll keep an open mind towards any such possibility.
CJJ, sounds like we lived the same life!! Although you depict it a lot more graphically than i would OP, I think your question begs this question: Why would a man who lives the life of a heterosexual person suddenly develop an attraction to the same sex? (for the record the legal status of marriage is largely irrelevant to the issue as legality as no bearing on true, personal morality - Although legality does influence some people sometimes) ...I think men who have previously lived as heterosexual and then engage in sexual encounters with other men have possibly repressed the element of their sexuality that favours the same sex. I am not married but i did repress my true sexuality for many years, i genuinely believed i was straight until i began hooking up with men in gay bars ..then i had to call my life into question and examine my actions.when people cage their true desires, those desires are inevitably stronger than the cage, and desires being desires will always seek freedom from any bounds.
I think I qualify as a older married guy who loves to suck another mans cock. I have always been attracted to a mans cock... though the persona of a man was never attraction... just his cock. I can say unequivocally say I am bisexual and not gay. I don't find the beauty in a woman the same as a man. Kissing a man still turns me off... go figure. I did not act on my attraction (to the cock) until I was married in my 30s. And it wasn't until later in life with the internet that provided the porn to peak the desire and the means to meet other men who share the same desires that made my cock sucking cum into bloom... heheheh. Being married I have to pick and chose and for me it's middle aged married men who have the same "skin in the game" (no pun intended) in the ever threat of brining STD home as a paramount mutual concern. I never understood what a woman got from giving blow jobs, and I got my share... maybe yours too until I let a man cum in my mouth... now I understand. Women would groan and moan while sucking me and as I came in their mouth they would moan to a orgasm level... and it wasn't until I did the very same thing when a man came in my mouth that I truly came to the realization that I just love to suck cock. Of course this is how I react to my sex drives but I REALLY don't know or understand why I like to lick and suck the reproductive genitalia of other people. I know it's in my genes but that's like saying I like to suck cock because I like to suck cock... that's not a reason... but sex in any form is the the most wonderful thing life has to offer.
My dad is bisexual and he was married to my mom for 15 yrs but he has been bi since he was 17...so honestly I don't think its anything to do with your wife or partner you just have a certain way u feel...it sucks that its more open for women to eat carpet but people put down men who like other men...I hate people who put down gays or bisexuals...I am bisexual but like I said its easier for me because I am a girl...Sorry guys...
Well, I'm not married, but I have been going steady a lil while. I've always thought it would be fun to suck cock (which started with, "damn I wonder what it would feel like to get a blowjob, I wonder if I could reach..." and later on "I wish I could reach!"), but the urges got so much worse since my girlfriend. She awakened my oral fixation, through kissing and going down on her. I am REALLY orally fixated. I'm the type of person that chews on everything that comes near my mouth - so as soon as it got linked to sex - it just went off. But licking pussy can be rather tiring on my tongue, so that's one aspect that makes cock sucking seem appealing. Also, I have come to learn that my cum tastes really great on her mouth or off her skin, and wonder what fresh cum being spurted into my mouth would feel like. I may try it someday, but only if I'm allowed.
I meet none of the criteria that this thread is aimed at.. But I just wanted to say it depends on various things. Some men are bi and attracted equally to both women and men, and therefore the will to suck cock whilst being married to a woman isn't more unusual than wanting to lick pussy. You're not tied entirely to fantasising about your spouse or partner, it's healthy to find attractions in other people. Other men consider themselves to be bi yet have a preference. More often than not, if he is married to a woman then chances are his preference lies with women (though not necessarily always- perhaps he prefers men but just happened to fall in love with a woman). But the attraction of a bi guy who favours women to men may appreciate the beauty of a women, and find themselves attracted to her body, her mind, her female attributes and assets and generally the whole persona of a woman. Yet they are only attracted to certain elements of a man, and even just his genetalia. It may come from the appreciation of his own cock, curiosity may well have arisen from that only. We're all sexual beings and it's in our instincts to find the hormones of others sexually arousing. I personally have never experienced the desire or will for a woman, but that's not to say I'll always feel the same way. I can imagine that these wants and feelings may well present themselves suddenly too. Many men and women don't become bi-curious until their later years, it's quite often that people develop the needs every now and again to try new things. Can I just say that I find hetro/bi guys who are attracted to cock so appealing? Jeez. I personally wouldn't want my boyfriend's mouth on the genetalia of anyone, regardless of their sex. I don't even want to fantasise about my boyfriend with his mouth on another cock, but when it comes to thinking about other guys then the fantasy is great. I'd be thrilled to have a boyfriend that'd been a bit of a cock sucker before we got together offically. Nice!
Yes kissing can be a turn on... even for me. Recently I was blowing my buddy and he came in my mouth. While I still had his cum in my mouth I felt this urge to kiss him and with his cum all over my mouth and face we tongue kissed. I can't tell you what a turn on that was as our tongues mixed our saliva and his cum together. From his reaction I know it turned him too. Next time I want him to return the "favor". I get hard just thinking of it.
Okay Topper, I have been married for over 39 years. The wife and I have great sex. She is hot for it so I never have to ask twice. Still I do have the desire to have oral sex with guys. The wife know that I am bisexual and has watched me give head to a male friend of mine. For me it is two different things. I love my wife. I just want to suck cock sometimes. If I had a friend that was receptive to the idea I would still be doing it. I have not had the opportunity for long long time.
