i think that for a man, visiting a prostitute isn't like "real sex" ~ it's more like a business transaction, where you're dealing with a professional, and with no emotional attachment involved. With a hooker, he could get whatever his heart desired, without any fear of being thought of as kinky or strange; on a date, let's face it, ladies, he's gonna get whatever we feel like giving. i personally wouldn't mind, and would probably figure that it just wasn't that big of a deal to HIM, and that's why he never told me. Of course, there IS always that "L"oser stigma...
again, as i already stated, i would wonder what kind of loser i have decided to share my life with...i value things like self control and self respect, someone who doesnt think with their cock. if it was way before he knew me, then whatever, i couldnt be angry, but i would re-evaluate the person that I thought i knew.
i agreee.. im not with him 10 years but yano... if he kept it secret from me,... for the 3 years yes ... id be really pissed off..