Okay so firstly, this thread isn't about how can I make/force/trick my girlfriend into having sex against her will. We haven't been together long and she's not opposed to sex but I dont think that she will initiate it. So therefore if I want to have sex with her it's up to me to do something about it. And I'm just looking for advice on what exactly I should do. Is it best to wait for it to happen naturally? As in should I wait until the next time she goes down on me or something and then just try and take it to the next level and see if shes up for it? The problem with this way though is that the only place we can do it is at her house and it kinda seems that me taking protection to her house would seem a little presumptous and may offend her. Or would it be better to actually propose the idea to her beforehand and discuss it and see how she feels? And then I dunno we'd like plan it out or set a date or something? I dunno, both ways seem kind of awkward to me and I'd appreciate any advice. If it makes any difference, I am a virgin but she is not.
HELLO THERE.. Well first of all do you love this girl? if yes then seriously you should just be straight out about wanting to make love.. Do something special for her,girls really like when her guy is sweet and isnt always looking for just sex:/ It all depends on the girl.. dont fuk it up by making it seem like sex was what you want all along.. Remember sex isnt everything in a relationship.
yes i love her. and she knows that and that i dont just want sex. i dunno about doing something special though, she's not really into over the top cliched romance.
Don't make it a big thing. When you two are together, just ask her if she wants to. Don't make it seem like you've thought it over though. That way if it's a no, there isn't too much tension between you two.
If you love this girl your connection should be strong enough to be able to communicate well. I love my girlfriend to death, and i can talk to her about anything without it being uncomfortable, thats part of what love is supposed to be to me.
If she is going down on you then I'm sure she isn't avoiding sex through being a prude, so perhaps she is afraid of getting pregnant. But the only way to be sure is to ask her. Next time she goes down on you, ask her if she wants to "make love" if she says no, then ask her why.
