What kind of person are you?

I thought you were a virgin. I was being serious in this post

 

you mean a lady like you right

 

Who wants a lady? They're all serious n shit. I don't wanna be loved seriously. That sounds ghastly.

I am . I knew you were.
Are you stalking my posts?

 

:cheers2:

 

Kinda yea. Your posts seem to be the only place I can find intelligence and humour. Also I know what you mean about being too good in bed. I have the same problem, I just didn't wanna say it. It's not something I'm proud of

 

The biggest mistake I make is leading someone on out of pity, and pushing away the people that I actually have feelings for.

I am confident however that when I find someone again it will be with someone I dont have to constantly wonder about their feelings/motives.

 

I'll jump right into something, and then back-off quickly after I realize there are things that make me uneasy about not knowing someone. It's a classic mistake, but I'm working through it. I'm just a bit of a loner and it's hard to share myself wholly with someone, ya know?

Nitpicking - it's the death of me.

 

Biggest problem would be getting scared and distancing myself from them. If I feel that something has changed or that they aren't happy, I back away. Usually without talking to them about it first.

The kind of person I've been looking for was someone who could be my best friend. Someone I could talk to about even the most embarassing stuff.

 

I'm not interested in people enough to keep a relationship going and healthy for long. I get bored too fast. I'm immature and narcissistic, and pretty much only interested in either amazing, fascinating people or people who are new and novel, like shiny toys. I'm sure eventually this will change.

 

I have commitment problems. Not fears, but problems. I am young and as soon as a relationship starts I think to myself how much it will suck when we break up. I'm not ready to settle down in any manner. However, I also trust too easily and I'm too nice. I've been cheated on a couple times, and I think it's because the girls think I don't care.

 

i have that problem too. and they really do. the sooner that goes through your mind though, you WILL put a stop to it

its like finding a needle in a hay stack when the guys still respect you

I figured out they basically have to have the same trust views as you

 

I have problems AND fears. I dont know where this came from but its such a struggle for me JUST to get in a relationship because that means commitment on my part and I dont want too much drama in the relationship but i know that there will be and that holds me back. Also I cant get emotionally connected.

 

Yeah, I've been that way a lot. It has probably stemmed from being cheated on. If you're not "official" in the relationship, you can't be cheated on, so I'm hesitant quite often.

 

My inherently Bad part would be emotion. Well outward emotions .. Its like tempered steel, visually hard/near impossible to see :/. However inwardly its completely different lol.

However, My tendancy is to do whatever to make you laugh. Play games, consistantly have fun.. Only ever truly had one relationship, though she found it wierd that there was never a fight or such, and always something to smile about going on.

But other then the sillyness, I think is where the problem is. or I guess people thinking into that im not that serious, Which is quite the opposite, my head is nothing but gears seeing all perspectives at a time :/. Also the habbit of sending text faces randomly lol.

ohh yeah messages i am apparently good at

 

I care WAY too much about most SOs way too soon. I always give my best go at any relationship, even the ones I KNOW won't last, just because it's my thing. I don't trust quite quick enough/easy enough. I've had a lot of things happen with past SOs that just diminished my trust in pretty much anything with a penis. And, I am way too giving of myself. I just give and give and give with nothing in return.

Thinking I love the other person. When I really think about my feelings for them....after the "I love you"s have been said, I don't love that person quite as much as I let them think. I guess when it's said to me I get so caught up in the moment that I say it back and don't mean it.

I want a gentleman that will treat me like a mother effing princess.
I want a man who can be a dorky and doesn't care if I'm dorky. Then, out of nowhere, take me by the hand and dance with me in a parking lot and be completely serious about it.
I want someone that can take me with my flaws and issues and completely LOVE me for me.