Rules of fighting: girls?

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by ThePoetSappho, Jul 30, 2009.

  1. Driftwood Gypsy

    Driftwood Gypsy Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    What's your opinion? if the woman lands the first punch, or starts the fight, does the guy have the right to fight back and defend himself?
    I was in a bit of a fist fight recently, got clocked good, a good uppercut right to the chin, but don't worry he looks even worse :)
    So ladies; is it right to hit him all we want, and he can't fight back because *le gasp* we're girls!?
    I say if I start it, if I throw the first punch, if i want to fight, then he has every right to fight back.
    Now let me say, ABUSE is NOT ok.
    But what about fist fighting, girls?
     
  2. JoeyPB

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    My friend's grandfather, who was a highly respectable, proper, educated, polite man of the 30's always said, "A woman is no longer a woman when she uses violence".

    I agree with him.
     
  3. lynzxx

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    ehh yeah, id expect a punch back if i hit him in the face,,,

    i dont think its really fair if i kept pucnhin and punchin him and he was just takin it...

    i dont really hit my boyfriend, if i did it would only be in the arms or something...

    but yeah, if she hits first i think its ok... but like he is stronmger so he gota be careful :eek:
     
  4. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    me and my guy friend was just arguing about this. He had a psycho gf that was smacking him like crazy, I mean CRAZY and he told her to stop, she wouldnt so he smacked her and lost her balance and fell.

    I agree with that. If the bitch is going crazy on a guy when the guy tells her to stop or warns her and she doesnt, then smack her. Women like that are weak and they have a stubborn mind thinking "oh im a girl so he'll never hit me"

    Now like punching..Id never punch a guy that'll knock me out cold. I usually dont hit guys, why should I? unless theyre being a total dick to me, then they deserve it but its usually a smack in the face and im walking away
     
  5. JoeyPB

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    Personally, if a girl (it doesn't matter if it's my girlfriend or not) hits me, I'm not going to give a warning. The act of her hitting me is warning enough. I truly think when a girl uses physical violence, at that point, she is no longer a woman -- she has thrown away that title/persona/what have you be it -- it's fair game.

    Now, if a girl hit me, I'm not saying I would hit her back. I've never hit a girl, but if I felt I needed to, I'd have not a single problem in doing it.
     
  6. Driftwood Gypsy

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    so if a guy hits someone is he no longer a man? I'm talking mano e mano physical one on one fights.
    So when we fight, we're all transvestites?
     
  7. JoeyPB

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    If you want to acknowledge that the physical stature of someone alone doesn't necessarily make them a man or a woman, then yes, when a guy hits someone, he is no longer a man, there are of course exceptions -when you start to get into chivalry - but does that even really exist anymore, and once I start to think about it, I see more immature boys and girls than I do true men and women.
     
  8. seraphina

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    if some girl came at me all crazy, i would fuckin mollywop her ass i dont give a fuck if its proper or not. fighting is reality is some parts of this country sadly enough. a girls got to know how to defend herself. i dont think there is any rules though it depends on the person. some punk ass little hoodrats think its okay to sock someone in the back of the head and pull a knife, i however wouldnt do that
     
  9. Driftwood Gypsy

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    hmmm. that's funny. I always thought
    balls and penis: male
    ovaries, uterus, and vagina: female

    so according to your logic, lady bugs are women?
     
  10. Katie89

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    i think you can hit her back.. but only as hard as she hit you lol
     
  11. Istar

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    Personally Tend to keep to the belief if a girl hits a guy, the girl should expect to be hit back. Theres no reason for someone to take physical hits from a person who resorts to physical attacks.
     
  12. JoeyPB

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    Nobody is born a man. Nobody is born a woman.

    Yes. Male and Female are the two sexes, I know. I'm speaking of Manhood and Womanhood, not genetics. Most cultures, even today, believe Manhood is earned.
     
  13. Driftwood Gypsy

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    aww, that's cute, very tribal. Reminds me of that Islam holiday where the men flog themselves. or is manhood earned by arm wrestling, or getting "totally wasted, bro"?
     
  14. moon_flower

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    I think it's wrong for a man to put his hands on a woman no matter the reason!

    Perhaps that's just the good ol' southern values with which I was raised. I've never seen a man hit a woman.
     
  15. Driftwood Gypsy

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    I beat down a guy twice my size!!
     
  16. Driftwood Gypsy

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    so if a girl wants to start a fight, she can beat the shit out of the guy and he can't fight back?
    So much for equal rights.

    Still stalking me, eh?
     
  17. moon_flower

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    I'm not a feminist. I don't think a man should hit a woman. No.

    And, I'm not stalking you. I actually didn't realize this thread was made by you until you said that. ;) It was under New Posts. GTF over yoursel. You asked a question, I answered it. Stay on topic.
     
  18. MikeE

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    Two truths:

    1) If a woman hits a man, she should expect to be hit back.

    2) Even under extreme provocation (including being struck), it is not wise for a man to hit a woman.

    No, its not equitable.
     
  19. KozmicBlue

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    It's never right to hit in the first place..

    But if I were to hit my partner I wouldn't start whining if he hit me back because frankly, I'd deserve it. It's in no way, shape or form more acceptable for a woman to hit a man than the other way around.
     
  20. lynnsy101

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    if a woman hits a man, she's asking for it. i believe you have a right to defend yourself, whether that be against a man or woman
     

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