why do guys wanna give girls anal?

The key to good anal sex is in the mind. You have to want it to enjoy it. I also suggest that if it's your first time, remove all fecal concerns by doing an enema before, and I also recommend shaving the hair around your asshole before you proceed. These will all make the experience most satisfying for everyone.

 

When I was younger I wanted to do it just because it was different I guess. And I think it's kind of a power thing to some guys. But even though it's tighter I don't think it feels as good as a nice pussy, especially when the lady knows how to use it. My first wife sometimes wanted me to fuck her ass when she was drunk. And I had one other long term girlfriend who asked for it occasionally. But then she and I tried just about everything at one time or another. I guess I'd do it again if a lady really wanted it. But other than that, I don't really care.

 

Wow this thread just goes and goes...

Too lazy to read everyone else's posts but I doubt I'm saying anything new by adding:

1. When done right with a woman who is into it it can feel really really good - popping your cock past the sphincter and feeling it glide into her ass is amazing, most girls can give you a good squeeze down there, but far fewer have that much muscle control in their pussy

2. I love looking at a pussy and ass from the rear... it makes me very turned on to see my cock in either hole - us guys, we like to penetrate things so its natural - cock, meet hole...

3. Well, there's that whole taboo thing... but if everyone was doing it wouldn't be so taboo, but then I would be too busy enjoying it all the time to worry about loss of taboo

4. I don't get a kick out of it with women who are not into it - in fact I don't do it with them period, I respect their wishes. But all but one women I've ever dated were curious about it so I've had plenty enough and all have enjoyed it enough to repeat several times.

Hope that helps - I can't speak to those who treat it as a sadism or domination thing, or for the ones who don't find it pleasurable because "its dirty" or "gay". Their loss is my gain.

 

That is hot man. One of the great things about fucking doggy style is the view. Reminds me of a couple of lines from one of my favorite Zappa songs, Dinah Moe Hum.

She was buns up kneelin'
I was wheelin' and dealin'

 

I reckon it can be classed a dominant thing!

 

People like anal for various reason. And since I have not read every since post on this thread, then this is probably a repeat.

Not all of us want to dominate our girls or something like that. Some of us, like me, just REALLY love women's butts. I admit it, I'm a buttman. I love women's hot asses. I has nothing to do with taboos with me, I just love ass. I have always been a fan of the female ass as long as I can remember, and when I saw a porn when I was a kid and I saw you could stick our cock in the butt, I was SO aroused. I didn't even know anal sex as possible.

And the first time I stuck it in a girls butt was simply amazing. To look down and see those beautiful butt cheeks spread open wide to accept my cock, and the look of that little tiny hole stretch to capacity wrapped drum tight around my dick was so sexy. That was just the visual, the feeling was even better.

I love vaginal sex, there is nothing that will replace it, and I would never give up vaginal to only have anal, but I must admit, I think anal feels better than vaginal for me. I like the way it feels, plus when my girl orgasms, her ass spasms and message my cock which feels just awesome. My girl also has the hardest orgasms this way. I even love rimming and eating my girls ass, it's so fun and it drive her crazy. I just love being face deep in ass. I love being smothered by her big butt.

There is something so sexy about being face deep in a woman's ass with your tongue in her butt while you play with her clit. It's just plain hot.

Also too the rarity of anal is also a plus. A lot of women are not into it, and a lot of guys can't do it right. To find a girl that can no only take it in the butt, but loves it in the butt is a difficult find. It's like a rare sports car or gem. Everything in the world has more value when it's rare, and women who love anal are rare.

I am kind of a mixed bag I love it when my girl dominates me and sits on my face, but I also love pinning her down and ramming it deep and hard in her ass. My girl does not give me oral sex, not because she can't do it right, but because I am not a huge fan of BJ's, I don't know why! So anal is kind of like the oral in our relationship. I eat her pussy and ass, but she doesn't suck my cock, and that's fine with me, I just want some of that big butt on my cock and I'm in 7th heaven.

 

Personally I love anal sex. As a woman I find it deeply sensual and, lets face it, I have three holes so waste one?
Sorry if that is crude but it's just how I feel.
Sex starts with the mind so if you really aren't into something, don't try it.

 

For me it is the ultimate submission (aside from the whole BDSM thing, of course). For a girl to be willing to turn around, bend over and allow me penetrate her in the most intimate and dirty way is just a massive rush. Also, I have done it with enough girls to know that they (most of them) can really get off on the sensations also...and I really enjoy knowing that they are walking the tightrope between ecstasy and agony.

Any time I am with a new girl, I ask if they like it or are willing to try...if the answer is no to either of those then I respect that.

 

I guess when it comes to anal women have 2 questions:

1) Why?

Because it is better than pussy. Sorry but this the honest truth. It is tight and warm and usually allows for more body contact as well! It is a thin muscular pipe that FULLY "hugs" tight and tender our penis.

2) Will it hurt?

No! Let me emphasise that: NO! If it is done right of course.
The feeling for the girl will vary between just being weird to something nice or very nice!

Key points: Arousal! Preferably using the vaginal fluids to massage the anus.
Also for the girl to become conscious of relaxing her sphincter. When something is attempted to enter the anus, it is a natural reflex to tighten the sphincter. With some training one can learn to relax instead.
Of-course lubrication is important, but if a girl is aroused her vaginal fluids and a fresh condom is enough, though there is no such thing as too much lubrication.
Before entering you may check the anus via the vagina for "context". Small surprises should still be expected, unless the girl had a thorough enema. But in the right state of mind, this is not really a problem.

Never use 2 condoms one over the other. The friction between them can make them brake. One condom is safer than two!
In case of haemorrhoids things will be tricky or impossible. Anal sex will help treat haemorrhoids though because it will help "loosen up".
A gastroenterologist can tell you than gay's do not have haemorrhoids for this obvious reason.

Regarding the philosophical part, yes anal is a sodomy. But so is masturbation or oral sex. Neither leads to offsprings (that is why Catholic church is against condoms)

PS: Not giving is also a sin!

PS2: Regarding leakage, it is probably not a problem in the long run. In the short run though something entering the anus is quite a disturbance for the sphincter and the girl may experience small (and I mean small) unintentional leakage once or twice. She will probably only notice it when she inspects her underwear.

 

It's ridiculous that women would want to know why man want to stick it up their butt. It's obvious.

If a guy were going to choose between a loose pussy and a tight pussy which one would he prefer, this is an obvious no brainer, the guy would choose the tighter pussy over the looser one. Applying this same logic, this is why guys want to stick it in girls butts, is because of the tightness. If the butthole was loose, there would be a lot less anal going on, trust me.

There are a million other reason why guys enjoy anal, but the number one is the tightness.

 

Yeah I never got how this took off, you're sticking your dick in her ass, it's a fucking ass, wtf, people are fucking stupid.

 

Well, here’s a theory. I wonder is its guys who are circumcised who are seeking this more? I mean their penis has less sensation so it stands to reason that they are seeking something that will give more direct stimulation.

As a guy who is intact I am perfectly satisfied with vaginal sex.

Think about it

 

I don't think I am unsatisfied with vaginal sex, I wanted to have anal even when I was a complete virgin. Anal just seemed like it would feel great, and come to find out it does. It feels just as good as it looks if not better.

People have been having anal for thousands of years, and will continue to do so because it feels good. That's why drugs and mind altering substances are popular, they make you feel good.

Humans are pleasure seeking by nature. People drink or do illegal drugs to add spice to life, it's not that life sucks, it's just that when you are mind altered the experience is different and brings different pleasure. It's not that I want to be drunk or high all day, or that being sober sucks, it's just something different that feels good, like anal. It's not that vaginal sucks, I LOVE vaginal sex, it feels awesome, anal is just something a little extra that I like sometimes, like a fine wine or some nice sticky chronic.

I would say don't knock it until you try it. A high school buddy of mine said the SAME thing, how anal was stupid. After he tried it with his wife, he saw how great it felt, they both loved it. He couldn't believe how good it felt, neither could his wife.

 

Short answer = it's tiiiiiight!

 

well i would never ever want to do anal if she didn't want to.

 

simply put: its the baddest form of sex

its unatural sex

a girl that will take it up there is a huge turn on

 

I've never been a fan of anal sex. In my opinion, it doesn't feel any better than a vagina, I don't find it too attractive, and it can be the bearer of a pretty rancid smell. The girl I was with in my last major relationship was into anal sex - she enjoyed it - and she would occasionally want it. I didn't like it, but I did it for her - I know, a horrible sacrifice to have to pay for someone you love. lol

 

I would agree with the first part, anal does not feel "better" than vaginal, it's just different. Physiologically speaking the anus is tighter than the vagina, which is why a lot of guys like anal. Maybe you were lucky and got a girl with a butt hole tight vagina, or you were unlucky and got a girl with a loose ass. Most guys like the additional tightness of the anus, but it's not a better feeling, just tighter. Better is in the eye of the beholder, the word better is subjective, but tighter is a fact, you can objectively measure the anus is tighter than the vagina on average, that's why anal can cause so much pain is because how tight the hole is, it's also the reason why it feel so good on the penis is because of the additional tactile stimulation and friction. Maybe you don't like the additional tightness, so for you, it's not better.

I am not saying that the difference in feeling is a HUGE, but it's enough for most guys to be able to tell the difference. Look at wine tasting for instance. Most people when they drink wine, it all tastes the same or similar to them, but to a wine connoisseur, every wine has a very unique and different taste. For a sex connoisseur, the subtle difference between anal and vaginal are quite easily perceptible. Even from woman to woman vagina's feels different, why would there be no difference between the vagina and butt hole. Just because you are not sensitive enough to pick up the differences, doesn't mean they don't exist. Absence of evidence, is not evidence of absence.

You said that anal is the bearer of pretty rancid smells, WHAT!? I have had my face, dick and tongue all up in women's asses, and I have never detected any rancid smell. Maybe your girl had bad hygiene habits or something because anal sex should not have a rancid smell or any other bad smell that one might imagine as long as the receiver does proper anal hygiene before having anal sex.

I've had my girl gape pretty big during anal sex, and I not ONCE detected any rancid or shitty smell coming from her rectum, and her ass was open the size of a quarter. Your girl needs to CLEAN her ass BEFORE anal and you will not have this problem.

 

I didn't say it IS (definitely) the bearer of bad smells, but CAN be. I've had anal with more than one girl, and when you stick anything in a passage that escorts feces outside the body, you're bound to get a smell somewhere in time.

 

Haha.. thats it! Why does it have to be any more complex then the hole's tighter??! Unless you're just a bit disturbed nobody should get turned on by putting their dick in shit!