Homosexual or not?

Ok so I've recently found my best friend has had a secret life for the past 4 years: he's been a male escort, for rich older men. Now, he's good looking, use to be a fashion model, girls love him, and he gets a ton of pussy, no one lands more girls than this guy, and he definitely loves the ladies.

But! He's being a male escort for men, and insists that he is "100%" straight. And I'm inclined to believe him, I honestly don't think he's attracted to men, or would want a relationship with one. So he's really just doing it for the money, but my question is, how can a person do that? I mean to prostitute is one thing, to do it for a sex you're not even sexually attracted to, but mostly, to do it when he doesn't need the money?

It's fascinating actually, do you have to be amoral to do something like this? There has to be some sought of disconnect with himself there.

 

Do you believe morality can be determined?
It can be described, defined, legislated, Indoctrinated...
But what Is it? A feeling, an Object or both?
I think morality is relative
If morality was a united consciousness, we might have to say 'all pleasure is the same' and 'pleasure is the same for us all' even though we are individuals experiencing a unique perspective.
The universe so far has gone from simple to complex
Evolutionary success can be attributed to diversity. Paradoxically our differences are what unite us.
We all enjoy different things

 

He could just be bisexual.

 

sounds like a regular ol' Aussie... what's the problem?

 

Most long term female prostitutes are gay. Started off with the guys too early, devalued that, do 10 guys a night, go home to the loving arms of their girlfriend. For them its more about ego (and money of course) cos they started early have more experience, no other girl can fuck a guy like they can.

Similar thing with your friend, its more about ego, all "Tops" as they say in the old language are the same, in the end nothing more macho than making another guy your bitch, he thinks its selfish to deny anyone the power of the moose

 

Dude,

I would leave the question of HIS sexual identity/morality to him alone. Straight, gay or bi or whatever? Why would this really matter to you? If you are NOT sexually involved with him, his sexual affairs are purely his and frankly, none of your business.

On a more theoretical level, you are right in wondering as to why an awovedly '100% str8' men would be escorting for older gay men, even though he may not be in need of cash?

Keep in mind, that only your friend really has the answer to this question, and that no amount of collective wisdom may really help you here.

First off, quite a few gay or bi guys do have a huge problem with admitting to themselves that they really are gay or bi for whatever their particular reasons may be. Being paid (even handsomely paid) for having m2m sex takes away practically all of the stigma attached to it. Cash becomes both a powerful and gratifying rationale for having sex that you are basically not comfortable with.

Second off, some people thrive on the idea of having very gratifying double identities. A bit of a Batman syndrome, if you are catching my drift? For all the practical purposes, your friend is a certified stud and hunk, 100% ladies' men who gets tonns of pussy when he wants it.

On a more private level, he also has a double life, being an escort for older men, who are willing to pay some real cash for the pleasure of his company. Cash rarely fails to give people that much needed ego-boost. Being popular, if it costs nothing is one thing. Collecting real cash for the pleasure of your company and sexual prowess is another.

Third off, escorting and modelling go pretty much like peanut butter and jelly... Once you are in that industry, you see what other dudes do, so you kinda go with the flow. A few hundreds a night here and there did not really kill anyone, in particular, if you have developed expensive taste...

KD

 

I think he may just be doing it for the money. It must be a shock to you to find this out anyway.