ladies, ever have this feeling

yes. hahah.

 

Yes, I get all mushy with babies and weddings. I'm such a girl. But I think I definitely want to wait. Pooooor kid here.

 

I don't want to have kid's till I'm in my late 20's, at least. I want to travel a bit once I scrounge up a bit of cash. See new places, meet new people. I'm not the sort of person who's approach a new mother and get all clucky over the baby, or walk over to a pregger's shiela and ask how far along she is. If a new mum asks if I want to hold the baby, I will, but I'll be shitting myself the whole time. I dont think all babies are cute either; there have been a few I've physically cringed at they look so weird.

A friend of mine had a baby about 11 months ago, and the first time I held her at the hospital, she was about three days old and I couldn't stop trembling, she was just so tiny! I have allot of affection for her, she's a very well behaved kid, smiling all the time, and trying to talk, and crawling everywhere. Heard her say, "shit" the other day, which was brilliant.

My cousin's mrs had a little boy about a month ago, too. When I first saw him I thought he looked like a orangutang-gremlin mix, but he's getting cuter as he grows.

But yeah, I dont plan on becoming a MotherRose for a long time.

 

Sometimes. I do have 2 already, but they're half grown.

Can I read by your uterus light?

 

Me too!

 

I'm ready to have a baby. Just got to put the order in.

 

yes, i want little aryan babies
thing is i don't want them until i can support them and not fuck them up
i need to not be fucked up frist
so i may never have babies...
i'd push myself down a flight of stairs if i was pregnant now

 

That is exactly how I feel, although I obviously wouldn't need to throw myself off a flight of stairs.

I'm not having kids until I know that I can give them a really good life.

 

Yeah, I always said I wouldn't have them until I could do well by them.

 

I dig babies. I had one 12 years ago and another almost 7. Then in 2006 the DR. said "Your a mess in there." I had a total radical hysterectomy. Nice to not be so sick now.
Now, I can get all gushy over babies I see, and know that there's nothin' I'm gonna do about it. Too poor to adopt.
Now I just wait for the grandkids. I'll spoil em, feed em junk, and send em home. I get to teach them about "all that hippie crap." (someone said that to me when I mentioned wanting to go gypsy, and live in a bus or a commune)

 

Oh, I get hit with baby lust quite a bit, and yet I have three children, two of which are twins.

I've also lost two babies.

Despite how much work it is, how exhausting it can be, I still find myself wanting more at times, especially when faced with a pregnant woman or a baby. Hubby says I'm just a hard-core breeder.

However, I can't have any more kids. Well, that's not exactly true, I could, but it would be extremely stupid on my part being that I nearly died with my twin pregnancy and have been told by three different physicians not to conceive again. I love my family too much to take any chances.

But, then after the baby lust fades once again (which tends to happen once my hormones level off after ovulation), I think, whoa, I'm sooo glad I'm past the up all night, leaky boobs, constantly smelling like spit-up, diaper duty, fussy/screaming/colicky, needing you nonstop part. I can relax when we go to people's homes to visit, my kids can go off and play, I don't have to follow them around nonstop, I can actually, wow, socialize! I don't have to cart around an industrial sized diaper bag, endless baby gear, carseat carriers, or plan every outting around feedings and naps.

The fact remains that I love kids, I just do. I've always been super maternal, even at an early age. So now I'm just (impatiently) waiting for my little sister to start popping out some babies. That way, I can have my baby fix but send them back to her for the hard parts.

 

i want kids, and it'll have to be soon cos my schedule is packed for the next 6 years or something. i dont particularly like other peoples little brats but all my little cousins are gorgeous

gen X are shit parents though, i hope my generation isn't as retarded in their child rearing. all that coddling and babying. those kids are going to be fucked up.

 

I guess you need to get over here and give me some more. That's how my daughters father is, and I'm cool with it.


I definitely get all gooshy around babies. I love kids and I want 3 more. It is tough, but I love every minute of it.

 

haha ya i do that constantly

 

Yeah, I think about that.