k so i met a chick i somewhat knew before on a Vacation shes younger than me - 20 while i'm 23, she's also the younger sister of a girl i graduated highschool with but that isnt too big of a deal we hung out with our groups of friends and eventually it came to the point where i didnt want to be too forward but a sister of my friend kinda gave me the inside info and said that she was into me and would always bring me up in discussions about our "group" etc. so we both kinda hit it off more as the trip went on, and before she left i never really had a private moment with her to ask her to see her back home, so i bust out my phone and just typed on the note pad "Coffee back home sometime?" she replied Sure and made a little remark about my phone and left her number on the note, so the rest of the time were kinda just smiling at eachother etc. until she left so now that were back home i've txt her a few times just seeing how things are, and having a little convo back and forth but just little banter mostly i'm planning on going for coffee on like thur/friday to show her some pics from the trip etc. but im worried about coming off too "friend" like, she seemed like she was really into me and i'd love to make it go forward from here, but how do i go about coming off showing or "prodding" perhaps on taking it to another level rather than a friendship? or at least try to see her intentions as well? also im talking about like long term thing not just a fuck etc.
guess hipforums is only good for advice on taking pills you find on the floor and pedo's asking for panty shots :/
You already know she's into you so just talk and find out how much. If you can't ask her outright then suggest another date or go somewhere after coffee.
how do you ask somone out though outright? seems so fucked up to me, just say, hey? u wanna start seeing eachother? all my other relationships kinda just got to that point of mutual agreement, but this chick is a true beauty and i dont want to let her slip away
You just say "So, do you wanna go out?" or " We seem to like each other. Let's see where this goes." Always worked for me. Just saying. Geeez.
Hit it man, hit it. Just get her into a situation where you two are alone in a private place and go for it. That's all it takes. You don't have to say anything awkward. She knows what's up, and if she's into you as you say, she'll go along with it.
