When my wife was pregnant, that was one of the questions we asked the doctor (okay, I admit it: I asked the doctor) and she said it was perfectly safe. We just had to make sure my wife was comfortable and to avoid certain positions and of course no deep penetration. She also said that to be really safe to use a condom even though we were monogamous and I am no cheater. However, despite the doc's words my wife was still too nervous for sex. And no matter how horny I got, I would pick up on her nervousness and feel uneasy myself and stop. We ended up doing full intercourse only once last Valentine's day when she was still about 4 months pregnant. We just spooned the whole time and I took care not to go very deep and we went extra slow. Actually, I think I was less than halfway in. It was... different. Intense, like I can't even find the words to really describe it. It was as like we took all the intensity of our wildest lovemaking and concentrated it into a single point. I remember screaming - and I normally don't scream. I can be loud (actually we're both loud) but nothing like I was that night. Anyway, that was the last time we had sex. But I warned her that as soon as she got better I'd - well, you know.
Yes! Although orgasm, as well as breast stimulation, can cause the uterus to contract, this will not cause miscarriage. A bit of cramping after intercourse can be very normal. Of course, if cramping continues, or if it is associated with any spotting, you should contact your doctor right away. There's a very positive side to sex during pregnancy. Physiologically, the increased blood flow to the pelvis, the uterus, vagina and clitoris is enhanced, which congests the pelvis a bit and can increase a woman's pleasure, causing more intense orgasms. It can also cause a heightened libido. I found that to definitely be true during my pregnancies! Sex during pregnancy can be both safe and enjoyable. Your baby is perfectly protected in your uterus, and most couples can safely continue having sex right up until the baby is born. That said, there are a few situations in which your doctor will probably advise you against intercourse. Some of these would be: Preterm labor More than one miscarriage Placenta previa (a condition in which the placenta blocks the opening of the uterus) Infection Bleeding Breaking of the amniotic sac or leaking amniotic fluid And of course, the further along in pregnancy she is, the more inventive you need to get with positions.
i have done a perfect sex when my wife was in her 8 mounth,s pregnant but very carefully. im sure it would be safe .
