So, I just found out...

Gay for pay is a term I've heard, and it's probably closer to the truth, I don't think he's attracted to men, wouldn't be interested in having a relationship with one. this does explain how he came to be in business with a 50 year old multimillionaire though, he must have been his client at one time.

 

Yeah..

Peace

 

Well I'm seeing him for coffee tomorrow, I'm aching to ask him about, i mean I've just got so many question, but I decided not too, it's obviously something he's not proud of and didn't want anyone to know.

 

some guys could surprise you. i know several gay guys who you would never guess weren't straight.

but you're right, that does happen, too. one guy was telling me that in gay porn straight guys actually make more money than gay guys. there is apparently a whole genre of gay porn focusing on straight men willing to sleep with men for large sums of money. purely a psychological appeal, but whatever.

anyway, i mean as far as i would be concerned i wouldnt give a shit one way or another if he was gay. but if he managed to keep an occupation like that for 4 years without you knowing, and with him making that much money, i'd be a little curious as to how good your friendship really is. i mean, to each their own if he wants to suck some penises for money than whatever, but the fact that he could do it so long for so much money and still keep it secret.

i mean, wouldn't you notice when he'd leave the bar early "sorry man, i got an appointment"

"an appointment? but it's 1 in the morning?"

 

Well I knew something wasn't right, but you can't anticipate something like that. The only way I found out is a 'group' of people had been stalking him, taking pictures, recording phone conversations, they completely exposed him, they're trying to ruin his life, that's how I found out all the facts.

I mean, it's a little weird to here a recorded phone conversation of your best friend introducing himself under a different name and talking about tax deductions on dildos!

 

wtf did he do to piss those people off to the point where they're going to so much (likely illegal) effort? he must not be good about not using his teeth :rofl:

 

Actually it's a good question, he collapsed last year, just randomly fainted, went to hospital, he said it was because of the pressure from work and uni, now I really know why, his secret life has been exposed, they've mentioned his mum, making radical claims like he's a child sex offender, drug addict (he does a lot of coke, but he's not an addict).

He's still only 21, that's a lot for a kid to handle. So, while I'm dying to know his side of the story, I'll be keeping mum.

 

wow. well, thats not as bad as finding out he was a corner street whore for crack, spreading aids and running family members over in crack fueled rages and commiting thousands of dollars in check frauds all over town.

True story.

Make sure you talk to him about being safe, and let him do his thing. Keep it separate and completely independent of your friendship.

 

how do you think he found out in the first place?

people digging up dirt...

 

Thank is pretty shocking that he keep such a secret for so long but hopefully it wont change your friendship that much.

 

Wait, he knows they're stalking him, right?

 

the man made half a million dollars by the time he's 21. i think he should be treating jamaican youth to some very pricey meals at the very least.

 

At least.........

Peace

 

i think you should say it to him... even hint that you know... its your best friend!! you should be able to ask them questions without feeling uncomfortable...

and i duno, he kinda sounds gay to me, if he wasnt gay, then why wouldnt he just be a normal escort instead of a gay one???

 

Because it's harder to get work as a normal male escort?

 

Yeah apparently that's true, he started as a normal escort for women, but there wasn't enough business. And yes, he knows he's being stalked, I've heard some of the recorded phone conversations, it's a smear campaign, these people had a vendetta against him, that's how he lost his original modeling contract, they sent the pics to his agency, and he said he left his college, but I read a letter from the parents of residents requesting that he be expelled. Doesn't matter, this kid is going to be successful no matter what, he was born that way.

I saw him today, he's gained a lot of weight, chubby... he had an 8 pack last time I saw him. Maybe it's a subconscious way of trying to distance himself away from all that.

 

or maybe it just all bullshit.

I mean recorded calls ? It's not like hes going to be using a landline for 'work' now is it.