Cheating and Trust

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just break it off with him. plain and simple. he cheated on you, he'll do it again

 

sounds like a cheater to me.

 

Sounds like he is at it again... sorry hun you deserve better!

 

My ex did the exact same thing. Once someone cheats on you its hard to ever trust them again. If he is texting and calling someone that much. Then "doesn't know who it is" then he is a lying dog. I say kick his miserable ass to the crub and don't look back.

 

why not just call the number and see who it is?

 

Sounds like a good idea to me

 

idk if i believe the 'once a cheater always a cheater' thing, but it sounds to me that your bf is definitely doing something he doesnt want you to know about.

don't ya hate it when people post stuff like this then never get back to us to tell us what has happened?

 

I would say you really need to break up with him.
Hes doing it again.
Someone doesnt just know they arent talking to someone unless hes on drugs.

 

If you call other girls sluts and whores for being promiscous, that doesnt stop them from doing it, just teachers them to run around in secret.

Just cos you are a girl, doesnt mean you are anything like some other girls, doesnt mean you arent clueless about other sections of the sisterhood.

If your boyfriend is getting attention from them, and sounds like he is, then not only is he going to know how easy it is especially if its more about the girls needs, he's also never going to be convinced that you dont cheat cos it would be just too easy for you to hide it.

 

I began look at my bf's call logs after he cheated on me, I was always suspicious. Now he deletes everything. One time his ex called him while we were hanging out together, and right in front of me he deletes her number from the call log. It's like deleting the evidence convinces them it never happened. When a guy starts deleting things from his phone so you won't see it, he's hiding stuff from you.

 

share the love!

 

If you can share your boy with other woman, let him know he needn't do these in secret.

if you need a true lover, just dump him and find a new one.

 

It doesn't sound like you will ever get over the cheating, rightfully so. Even if you think you have, there will always be that little doubt in your head every time he goes off by himself for a bit, even if it is for legit reasons.

This guy is obviously cheating consistently and doesn't even make the effort to come up with a convincing lie. What's more, he doesn't have the balls to own up to his cheating. "I don't remember." Sure. What does he take you for?

He is taking you for a ride, which will end with you in tears, unless you break off the relationship. Which will still be tough, but at least empowering. He had a guilty conscious and admitted to the bare minimum to clear it, while he maintains plenty of secrets. Secrets are not part of a healthy relationship.

Is this how you envisioned your relationship to this point, rummaging through his stuff? Do you need the stress of having to feel like you need to dig through everything of his? So that nagging, persisting feeling that he is possibly cheating briefly subsides? You found the numbers, he plays dumb. Doesn't sound like a good man, say goodbye.

 

you should cheat on him.

 

He is cheating. My ex used to do the same thing. check to make sure any guys names in his phone are actual guys u know he hangs out with, they might be girls that he just changed there names so you wouldnt get suspicious if you looked through his address book. Again something my ex used to do...DO NOT stand for it...but on the other hand if he can justify who it is and why they are talking so much then do not be worried because I have been unfaithful with my current bf in the beginning and I DO NOT do it anymore I made the mistake and I learned from it. People can change.!!! I hope that helps if not email me sometime @ indicaqueen@hotmail.com

 

what would that accomplish? scooping to his level?

 

Heres a question how many chicks check a phone log even if they're b/f hasn't cheated...Seems like every girl I've had a longterm relationship does this and I couldn't understand why I mean I could care less about whats on her phone or in her emails, but they would check my phone all the time, some would try to be suave about it and be like I wanna download a special ringtone...I didn't mind cuz I had nothin to hide from them (I keep a pager) kidding

 

if everyone in the world gave an eye for an eye then the whole world would be blind


it wouldnt accomplish anything basically..

two wrongs dont make a right and all that jazz

 

Just break up with him already. If he's cheated once, he's already kinda proved that he can't be trusted and that he doesn't really care about you. I mean, there is no way I would EVER stay with someone if they cheated on me.