I will devide all people into 5 groups. This groups will be called the 'Bird's Independency and Dealing With Yourself' (BIDWY) group. Group 1: You rather commit suicide than having to waste your time with someone else. Group 2: You like to spend some time with a better half sometimes, but most of the time you prefer to spend your time the way you want it. Group 3: You prefer to spend half of your time with a better half. Group 4: Without a better half you feel incomplete, directionless and steerless. Group 5: You rather commit suicide than to have no better half because you can't deal with yourself. What BIDWY group do you belong to?
Most of the time: Group 2: You like to spend some time with a better half sometimes, but most of the time you prefer to spend your time the way you want it. With somebody that little bit more special: Group 3: You prefer to spend half of your time with a better half.
I don't like the term "better" half - I'd say group 3 if the half was someone special, who meant a lot to me, who I enjoyed spending time with.. but better? no one is better than me.. nor worse, for that matter.
It's only worth it for me to spend a lot of time with someone else if helping that person feels like a selfish act, such is our compatibility.
Just for the hell of it here is my ex (the Devil's concubine) and our son on his HS graduation day 2005.
Group 2. I wish I would have stayed single with I had the chance though, I think I would have been happier all this time.
group 3 I guess? I never try to be in relationships but I rather love the one I am in. I like being independent but I love love.
hha I was starting to feel like a weirdo with all those group 2's! *edit* although I am, a weirdo, but..
group 2, but maybe even group 1, because I really enjoy being alone a lot and have a hard time really relaxing when I'm surrounded with company. Sad but true, a lot of days I just can't wait to get home and be by myself.