Girl dosnt want to try anal, help!

So, every time i put my cock up to her ass she always say no, or dont even think about it, i dont think she minds if i slide a finger in it when we are having sex because she never says anything about that... if anyone could give me some tips on how to get in there that would be great:tongue:

 

tell her you are going to take a boy for a test drive if she doesn't

 

Grow the fuck up and respect her wishes

 

now thats a good idea, i think im going to have to try that

 

I also suggest you respect her wishes. If she doesn't want to try it, respect that, it's her body.

What if she wanted to fuck you in the ass with a strap on, how would you feel about that!?

I love anal, so this is not coming from some right wing guy who hates anal or something like that. Anal is only good if the girl is open to it.

The first problem you made was to start with your pleasure before hers. You should have started with your tongue in her ass.

Tell her you read somewhere that anal stimulation increases orgasm intensity, and then eat her pussy and ass until she has an insane anal/vaginal orgasm.

If you succeed in doing that, she might be interested in further exploring anal.

But I think you might have fucked that up already, by trying to force her into it, so now she's on the defense.

Your first mistake was attempting something you knew absolutely nothing about. You would never jump into a car without knowing how a car works right, because you could easily kill yourself. You should have familiarized your self with anal FIRST, and then applied that theory on your girl.

You now have to back pedal to fix this, and you might have already screwed up your chances. Respect her wishes, and leave her ass alone, or find another girl and introduce her to anal the RIGHT way.

 

Do it when she's asleep

 

Dude, if she won't do anal, leave her! Better to move on to the next girl than to spend a lifetime of kissing up and shelling out so you can get into her butt. Don't waste your time and move on.

 

You will probably have to force it in the first 5-6 times. After that she will like it enough to let you do it without the use of violence.

 

How big is your dick? If you're huge you might as well give up. If you are average then you might be able to convince her but it will take time and work.

Like Triple Ace said, you have to get down there and lick her asshole for a while and get her into it. Later on you do this again and try a lubed finger while you lick her pussy. You have to go slowly over time. Just trying to ram your dick up there after fucking her pussy isn't going to work.

 

Just talk to her about it, and try to convince her to atleast try once. If you get the chance though, TAKE YOUR TIME. If you hurt her, she will probibly stop you, and their is a good chance you will never get to try on her again. Start with tounge, fingers, toys,... and build up. Use PLENTY of lube aswell

 

I suggest you do not even attempt penetration the first time. Just do it for her pleasure, like trypadream said, use the tongue, it's the secret key that opens the back door, TRUST ME! It has worked more often than not for me to get that anal cherry.

If you thoroughly stimulate her clit and g-spot, and when she is nice and excited, start licking her ass, preferably, it would be nice to start to rim her right when she is coming to give her orgasm an added kick. Once she sees how pleasurable anal orgasms can be, she will be MUCH more interested, even if it hurts at first, remember, vaginal hurt at first too.

But honestly, anal should not hurt when done correctly, but since you are a newbie, you might not warm her up as well as a seasoned vet, and it might cause her some discomfort, so just make sure and LISTEN to her, she is running the show, it's her ass, you need to be a slave to what ever she says. If she says it's too deep, pull back, if it hurts, stop, BUT do not pull it out, and put it back in, what ever you do, DO NOT DO THAT! The re-entry will hurt like a BITCH!

Once it's in, leave it in or don't go back in, just go back to eater her ass, fingering, and toys, and attempt penetration on another session. Trust me, this is pivotal, you do not want to screw this up, because you probably will not get a second chance. Treat this shit like you are trying to get into Yale or some other Ivy league school, have your shit together, and remember, you only have one shot, so do your very best.

 

As a woman who loves anal, I have to say this is perfect!:cheers2:

 

Thank you! Coming from a woman, that means a lot to me.

 

it's called rape dude

 

Yes! Good advice.

 

Use some duct tape on her mouth,wrists and feet!

 

Do this, and for sure this will also happen to you, IN JAIL! Probably without the comfort of lube though.

 

Yes, and youll be on the recieving end aswell.

 

No, Fingermouse had a good idea.

 

I suggest you try patience, keep up the anal stimulation and hope she'll change her mind. After ten years my partner decided to give it a go and now she tells me although the gross-out factor took a while to get over it feels great.

Why don't you show her the home made anal sex video from SlutLoad I just posted? Its all home movies and people having a great time enjoying anal. I'm not saying this means she will enjoy it if she decides to try it, but it does show that some people do have a great butt-fucking time with anal and that may be enough for her to at least try it once. Or you can have her read the posts her from women that enjoy it here - but be aware there are plenty of ones to the contrary too. Anal like any sexual practice is not for everyone, neither is oral or sex, period.

PS. And for goodness sake, if you are lucky enough that she agrees to give it a try, DO YOUR HOMEWORK first and no matter how horny it is making you put her needs and pleasure first.